So first I dont know if this is allowed but I am asking here because I LOVE the energy and views here. So anyways, there is a lot of variables here, but simply put, I am wondering what is your "technique" while being on top during sex? I generally do what feels right for me, and usually it seems to work. I like grinding back and forth, going up and down for some reason just doesn't feel good to me. A while ago there was a meme saying how a woman starts going back and forth which only feels good to her... Another thing is when I was on top someone once said to me the IUD was hurting them, I do not have an IUD, my cervix is lower than normal I guess which luckily does not hurt me, but it was a very awkward conversation explaining I do not have an IUD and they are hitting my cervix. Since then I will not go on top, which I used to love but I dont want to hurt anyone.