for some reason I have heavy anxiety when I go to a restaurant with somebody I'm interested in and I barely know. I will get anxiety to the point where when I try to put food in my mouth I will get a weird twitch in my head and then my head will do this subtle shaking thing. very strange. that's why I always am terrified to go to a restaurant on a first date. any advice here? what other options would you go for that would also qualify it as a high value date?? p. s other than that I don't get anxiety like that but yeah I have no idea why it happens.. I understand it's because I'm nervous but I wish I could just be nervous without that occurring. it's embarrassing.