If feminism is about gender equality you need to make a public statement and lobby politicians to oppose the Istanbul Convention signed by European countries. a convention that treat domestic violence as synonym with "violence against women and girls" and erase male victims.

If you are in the US oppose the "Violence Against Women Act" and ask politicians to change the name with a gender neutral name, and create "Violence Against Men Office" to match with the existing "Violence Against Women Office"

Demand male equivalent for any program created for females. example: your city created a commission for women and girls, demand the creation of a commission for men and boys. your local government mark International Women's Day ? ask them they mark International Men's Day. etc etc ...

You can tell me that you are for gender equality and at the same time you support female supremacy in government.