Hierarchy

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In the female dominance hierarchy, women compete indirectly. All women have various ambitions, but keeping those ambitions secret is key to their success.

If you’re unfamiliar with how female dominance hierarchies work - just think about how women talk to one another when they think no men are around listening

Women desire having power, status, control of a “high value male”, and having more “whatever” than the other women in her social circle do. But they do not want to look like they are grabbing for power. When women have something that other women do not, they will often plot to find ways to either bring that girl down, or raise the rest of the group up to her level (“hey Jessica, does your new bf have any brothers or friends?”). Notice how jealous girls get when one of her friends gets a boyfriend. It’s not that the girls really care about having a specific guy for her, it’s more that they just want a boyfriend because someone else got a boyfriend. Refer to any of the dating subreddits for stories about this ad naseum...

The female dominance hierarchy is innate in females just as the competitive pecking order hierarchical process is innate in men. For guys, think about the instinctual, subtle cues and body languages that guys communicate to one another when first meeting - often times there is boasting between men to compare accomplishments and victories, to demonstrate status and competence. Much of this is automatic and you don’t even realize you’re doing this until after it’s been said - you probably rationalize by saying that you’re just making friendly conversation by talking about your interests. Women have their own hierarchy but it is nearly imperceptible to most men. It is this way likely because natural selection meant this was the most effective system for the human species to prosper in.

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Definitions

  • Psychological projection - is a defense mechanism in which the ego defends itself against unconscious impulses or qualities by denying their existence in themselves by attributing them to others

  • Cognitive dissonance - the state of having inconsistent thoughts, beliefs, or attitudes, especially as relating to behavioral decisions and attitude change.

  • Patriarchy - a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it.

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Where do morals come from? No not philosophically - where do you first learn about morality?

For the vast majority of people, it’s from their mom.

Most social etiquette, rules, norms, manners, etc. are communicated from the mother to the child. Most mothers are often repeating the lessons they were taught by their mother, tweaked by her life experience. Over the generations, an evolution of societal rules will culminate. The problem is that these “rules” often get in the way of the dominance hierarchy.

Sometimes this is good - Jessica gets a new BF? Guess if you murder Jessica, you could assert your dominance in the hierarchy. Except one problem - someone decided that murder is bad (even though we find justifications for murder all the time throughout history). So, how do you ascend the hierarchy when many of the most effective tactics are against “The Rules” and give you cognitive dissonance?

Subvert the rules by spreading a rumor about Jessica being a slut. Reputation destruction is a bullying tactic that is EXTREMELY common in women - as any woman can tell you if they ever were a teenage girl. This is not something they necessarily grow out of. Look at how politics are done today. Look at twitters cancel culture - which demographic primarily uses that?

If women desire power, and they have to compete with men, but their rules prevent them from overtly chasing power, they must instead subvert the rules by...who can guess it? Reputation destruction.

Instead of competing and grabbing for power and status as a man would - through honest competency and overt competition - many will instead victimize themselves and say that they are “oppressed” and “not allowed”, “don’t have access to”, etc. for whatever it is they desire.

Think about the wage gap - women STILL claim to believe that it’s about sexism when it’s been clearly shown, innumerable times, that employers cannot pay women less than men - if they could, every single employer would hire only women so that they could pay them less. Women, instead, CHOOSE careers that pay less on average than careers that men CHOOSE to go into.

Nope! It’s still the patriarchy

How do women test their man? They make him chase and pursue her. They make him demonstrate his commitment to the idea that she is more special and more unique to him than other women. They mainly desire his desire. This also conveniently allows them to dance the line of plausible deniability if they don’t find him attractive enough - they can easily say that the man perused her and she tried to say no, but that damn patriarchy again forcing women to placate men and be subservient to their will!

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Conclusion

This system of victimization and blame shifting is the greatest example of Sun Tzu’s the art of war. Subvert subvert subvert. And we men are almost completely unaware of it.

As time has gone on, the contradictory nature of feminism and women in general is starting to become more apparent. “Patriarchy” is little more than the projection of the female desire for power.

This dovetails nicely into male disposability theory as well. But that’a where I’ll stop for today.