Anyone ever gone speed dating?

VigilantRedRooster · 2016-06-04T04:56:37+00:00

I haven't, but here is a fun read about a man's experience with a group dinner date service.

CypherWolf21 · 2016-06-04T07:55:45+00:00

It seems terrible from what I understand. Women sit down and get their egos inflated by hordes of beta chumps. Then you come in and have 2 minutes to seduce them.

That's not gonna work in your favour.

AZTRP · 2016-06-04T04:53:19+00:00

Haven't but I'm assuming it'd be great for frame and game.

TomFoo · 2016-06-04T04:54:05+00:00

I went once. It was about dozen or so each side, 3 minutes per girl. Fun for first few girls, then it became exhausting and repetitive. Dont need to do that again.

TDCRedPill · 2016-06-04T05:31:24+00:00

Went to a couple of the Sci-Fi Speed Dating at a couple of cons. Overall, it was actually really fun, if you've got a personality and aren't fat/ugly. Soooo, soo much of it was girls looking for hot nookie. Buff dude in a good cosplay and you're golden.

Know your question, since you'll really only need one to ask everyone to start and convo after that. Make sure to have a few answers for your own question, because of course they'll ask the same back at you. Knowing your question lets you confidently lead the conversation right out of the gate.
You're gaming well before it actually starts. Make sure your body language and overall vibe is good well before anything happens. If you can, get the guys talking with you while you wait and 'lead' the group.
I dont see any point in even bothering writing down your number on girl's sheets. If they didn't write their number on yours, there's no reason to expect they might call you. Work from the numbers you get, and if there's one you like who didn't that you want to try a little more with, hope to catch them on the floor and chat them up/drag them with you to the next super awesome panel your going to/food/ask them to take photos of you with cosplayers.
It's speed dating for people in town for a weekend cons You're going for hot and raw sexuality under a thin veneer of charming. Be Chad or don't bother.

thesixace · 2016-06-04T14:27:23+00:00

I went to one where a buddy signed us up. Free drink cuz they were doing some documentary.

Here's the breakdown.

Went in and found another couple of dudes and started shooting the shit. There were another girl standing by self and we asked for female opinion and got her laughing. By the time it started we had a big group laughing and sharing jokes.

Went uphill from there. 10 picks and 10 matches. Don't ask boring questions like what you do for work etc etc.

JonMan219 · 2016-06-04T15:35:17+00:00

Yeah I do it because it's the only way I can meet women. I don't like daygaming I feel like I wouldn't do so well at it. Problem with speed dating is that I have to take whatever is there and that's not always good.

Title	Anyone ever gone speed dating?
Author	JonMan219
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Date	June 4, 2016 2:38 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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