I made this post for the people that think women (in the SMP) have it harder than men or that men have it harder than women.

Women and men have different advantages and disadvantages in the SMP and these things make the SMP equal for both sexes. Remember men and women are different, that’s why double standards exist.

A man can have a lot of sexual success and be praised for that, but a women will be called a hoe. However, a women can be unemployed and unconfident and still be approached by many men, a man cannot.

A women’s value is apparent, but a man’s value is a little more ambiguous. Once you start to understand your value as a man things start to become more balanced and here is why:

Women have inherent value vs men have infinite potential, generally speaking. A woman can leverage her looks and bag a super star or a high value man. A man can level up, and bag a model or a pretty woman. Essentially that man will have the options that woman has/had, IF he lives up to his potential. Same for a woman if she leverages her looks before it’s to late. Both will fail in the SMP if they do not understand this. Women peak early in life, men peak later on. This is equal.

Some are you going say that, well men aren’t living up to their potential, but that doesn’t make it less true. There is not much more a beautiful women can do to make herself more attractive like how a man can. Don’t get it twisted She already has plenty options but, a man can have endless options if he lives up to his full potential!

Men and women both have advantages and disadvantages in the SMP you just have to leverage it, understand it, and live up to that potential.

You can’t hate one double standard and then appreciate another.