Hey guys so I met up with some friends today. it was co-ed, I'm not really close to the guys but we are all apart of the same organization. (TW) Last week I told one of the girl friends that I was raped about 2 months ago. I was black out drunk and don't remember anything. The rapist said he wore a condom but I have no way to be certain. I took the morning after pill 3 days after and then a pregnancy test 6 weeks after. A few months prior to the rape I got off birth control and still haven't gotten my period back, so it's not like I have a consistent monthly flow.

Anyways so today this same girl started bringing up the topic of the new anti-abortion law. They started getting into it and then she told us her mother thought about aborting her as a baby. First of all, WTF we don't need to know that many details, and secondly why would her mother tell her that? That is a messed up thing to tell a child. I was getting annoyed at the conversation and told her "Why would your mom tell you that?" And she became defensive and said 'Oh my mom and I are really close." Another woman in the group said "Oh yeah so-and-so and her mom are super close." Anyways I couldnt take it anymore and I asked them if they could please change the conversation. Anyways this ugly ass scrote chimes in 'What's the big deal we're just talking" and then I said "well it's making me uncomfortable." Then my friend said "sorry we didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable. I stormed away a few mins later because I was so upset.

She texted me a few mins later saying "hey so sorry if I offended you. That was not my intention at all."

Just because your intention is to not offend someone, doesn't mean that you get a free pass to say whatever you want without regards to other people's feelings. I feel like that is a scrote thing to say. 'It was not my intention." Haha well you don't get a free pass.

Anyways, is this someone I should continue being friends with? The organization is a personal growth oriented organization and I just payed my membership fees. I am at a loss...I left my other friend group because they left me alone the night of the rape...

Also, I reported the rapist today!! I feel so much better now!