Being manipulated

verily_rp · 2016-06-14T09:17:16+00:00

I got bad news for you bro. You are Plan B. And rightfully so. You're a complete beta.

Anytime I tried to touch her she shoved me away, refused to kiss me, and literally attacked me with every bad thing she claims I have ever done.

Here's your first mistake: accepting her frame. You should have walked out right then and there. You need to train your woman so she understands that you're a lover and not a provider. She must only see you in the lover light.

She went on birth control while we weren't speaking for a month,

Because she was fucking chads, duh. What chick wants to use birth control when no sex is involved? Are you stupid?

I told her last night for a better relationship we need to duck more and do more things together, and if she was serious she should come duck my brains out.

And here's your second mistake. You cannot negotiate desire.

this is a chick with no job, no education while I make 6 figures a year and she's trying to tell me how things will be

Why are you letting this chick push you around? You've got the power here but you're just giving your attention and time away for free. What'd you think would happen? If she's not second guessing her every action and how it will impact you, you're not doing it right. That said, let this go. Learn from it, and move on. She's an ex anyway.

RPShitlord · 2016-06-14T02:57:21+00:00

What's all this bullshit? She's your ex. Keep it that way. Don't see her, see your children.

i_forget_my_userids · 2016-06-14T03:07:09+00:00

Let it go. Fuck new younger girls.

dregofsociety · 2016-06-14T10:03:24+00:00

You will never gain her attraction or true respect again, because she is the mother of your children. She has already planned for sex with someone else and thus subconsciously surrendered the desire to keep her family together. A mother is judged by how she keeps the family together. She gave up on the family and pursued another cock. And as the mother of your kids, she knows that you will always be plan B as long as you don't marry or have kids with someone else. If you get back with her, prepare for infidelity and/or disrespect from her, because you are beta in her eyes. I would prepare for child support and/or custody arrangements. I would also advise you to never return to her or attempt to court her if you can prove that she has engaged in sexual relations with another man. That will ensure you maintain the last remaining respect you will be able to hold, that of being the father of her kids.

trpthroway123 · 2016-06-14T12:43:55+00:00

She's gone. She's been gone. She knows you haven't yet realized it, so she's prodding to see just how much she can get from you.

This is the part where you find her younger and hotter replacement. She's trying to get a house/car/education, there's hot 20-something girls that will do anything you ask in return for some lingerie and food (that you get to pick out).

Title	Being manipulated
Author	rickymaxwell
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	June 14, 2016 2:21 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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