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Do You Have To Pay Alimony If Your Wife Cheated?

boreedpanda

September 12, 2021
34 upvotes
/r/MensRights
https://divorceandbreakup.com/do-i-have-to-pay-alimony-if-my-wife-cheated/
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Title Do You Have To Pay Alimony If Your Wife Cheated?
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boreedpanda

Upvotes 34
Comments 17
Date September 12, 2021 5:16 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/pmmojl/do_you_have_to_pay_alimony_if_your_wife_cheated/
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Comments

[–]AbaloneSilent5810 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

from the article: “a family court judge reviews each case carefully”… NO THEY WILL NOT.. men get financially gutted in a libtard society like canada

[–]Angryasfk 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

We live in an age of no fault divorce. Despite what “plankton” tries to claim, this means a marriage can be dissolved simply because one party (usually the woman) decides she wants to move on. With a no fault divorce, cheating is really immaterial. My former doctor was taken to the cleaners by his ex and she was carrying on an affair and ultimately left him for that guy.

It would depend upon local laws, and on whether you had a prenuptial.

[–]throwawaygayaccount9 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Prenups depending on the state and municipality the family court can throw your prenup out for being “unfair”.

[–]Angryasfk 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Doubtless they can. This is why the law in the area you live is very important.

[–]Southerndude62 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

These days there are judges who go beyond the law and side with the women.

Women initiate 80% of divorces. Men stand to lose half their money and the house.

If you dont live in a no fault state AND have a bullet proof prenup, maybe you don't have to pay alimony. But who cheated is immaterial.

Don't get married if you want to protect your money. And if your state is common law, don't live together.

[–]OldEgalitarianMRA 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The most common cause of alimony is marriage. Especially someone earning less than you.

[–]YourPillsAintWorkin 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No Fault Divorce laws mean SHE is never at fault.

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[–]Big_Chocolate_420 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

wrong in many countries you have to pay if you live with her in a long-term relationship

it doesn't matter if you are married or not

in Germany it's called informal marriage

[–]TP_Crisis_2020 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's called common law marriage in the US, but it only counts after a certain number of years.

[–]OldEgalitarianMRA 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And only in some states. Many states have no common law marriage.

[–]jadedlonewolf89 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There is a bit more to it than that like actually telling people that you’re married this varies state to state though.

[–]AggressiveProblem654 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah what I meant is guys should only do hookups or friends with benefits.

[–]EnvironmentalWar4627 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah. Women are mostly pretty stable. Only some are crazy.

[–]FuzzyWanderer1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hire a local, well-regarded, attorney that specializes in family law. Don't try and go cheap, don't let cost dictate your choice. Ask that attorney.

Laws on divorce, alimony, child support, etc. vary by state. Every state has different laws that are applied, if you don't have a valid, enforceable prenuptial agreement then the state where the divorce is filed will apply their laws. And laws change all the time.

Get a prenuptial agreement properly drafted and executed before marriage or you could get stuck with a situation you never contemplated.

[–]krysis2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Unfortunately there is a possibility...I've heard it done b4

[–]facts_onfire2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In India it depends upon judge.... Sometimes she's gets alimony until next marriage

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