My bf and I were supposed to go to a nice banquet together that my dad had gave us tickets to, but he wanted to work the overtime (which I support). I decided to stay home with him; make a nice dinner, have champagne. He's been so distant and hasn't said hardly anything, showed not the slightest bit of affection, seemingly exasperated at me for no reason. He "has to work in the morning". Meanwhile whenever he wants to enjoy himself, just hitting midnight is no big deal. I tried for us to have a decent, chill night, but he's just been a buthead. He didn't even move to kiss me when the new year came. Now I've cried in the kitchen and am morose. My family and friends would never make me feel this way. It makes me feel like we shouldn't be together, even tho I love him. Am I overeating and just need to repress it or "calm down"?