I hear and see so many women complaining that simple curteousy is dangerous to their own well being.

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The thing is, they don't realize how much a simple compliment actually means to a man (and Men would rarely take offense to the simplest, even misguided compliment) in the current circumstance. Which is why so many take it as a "come on".

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Men rarely get complimented. By default we are a treated as rapist sociopaths. Not normal people, such is the status quoe.

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All I'm simply trying to say is, maybe if Men weren't compartmentalized as rapist, incel abusers, maybe Men would actually "do better".

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Just genuinely compliment dudes without alterior motives, that might normalize it as "not flirting". Or maybe I'm just an incel looser. Because putting my dick in a vagina or anything for that matter doesn't count apparently.