I've never sought the attention of women, but I've always wanted men to acknowledge me - why?

Eyes_Of_The_Dragon · 2016-06-28T14:37:22+00:00

You want to feel validated. You want to feel like you have value to other men that you respect. This is normal, you wanted dad's approval and didn't get it. See if you can find some mentors that can give you part of what you need.

Many men are beta because dad was absent or hamstrung by feminism so men turned to mom's approval instead, leading us to this conundrum.

ledbed · 2016-06-28T18:00:09+00:00

Mentors are fine, good even, when starting something new. But if you don't learn to lead you will never be high status in that activity and it won't help nearly as much with women.

mikeylongshanks · 2016-06-29T17:13:32+00:00

Like other posters have mentioned, you need mentors. I was raised by my mom (dad left when I was 4) and obviously that impacted me negatively. I didn't have a male role model. Luckily, I found them in recovery when I got sober. I also went through the mankind project a couple years ago. It's life changing for a lot of people. It did help me get over my dad leaving and the fact that they're all about male development is another plus. If you're interested in developing as a man, I would highly recommend it. It's red pill in a sense...mostly the part about finding out who you are and teaching male leadership skills. Not too heavy on game or plating women though lol

Title	I've never sought the attention of women, but I've always wanted men to acknowledge me - why?
Author	Blaze_of_glory91
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	June 28, 2016 2:34 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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