Girls would ramble on and on about what they want in a partner...they want compability, same interest, hobbies and chemistry. There's a vast majority of guys who would have same interest as the other girl or atleast try to adopt one of her's as an effort. They may spend weeks, months and years trying to strengthen the bond and know more about her vice versa.

But at the end 98% of the time it's all for nothing...she will give interest to a stereotypical fun guy or bad boy who she doesn't have a clear idea of what his actual character and she only knows that guy for like maybe 2 weeks. As a result she gets her heart broken cause he was not the one who she thought he was.

Won't a guy whom you known for years looks like a better deal than some hotshot you came to for couple of weeks?