Going to rant about how fucked up dating apps really are. I'm guilty of using them, but it's because no one meets organically anymore... or it's very rare.
Apps like Tinder are destroying the social construct in our ways of life. They're all just a way to disassociate an actual interaction with real people, replaced with some pseudo form of "communication", such as the people who have no intention of finding a relationship, the "looking for a third" or people who just want to get laid. The people I personally loathe most, are those who use it for "more followers". The most ostentatious and vile breed of "online daters". (the amount of people that are following you, and liking your overly sexualized pics caked with filters...or digital lies... is the most pointless, and demoralizing accomplishment I can think of since voting LOL. It means exactly NOTHING, except for a bunch of people clicked "👍"... Unless you're actually looking for a group of like-minded people to sell art or something that takes skill, but we're not on dating apps to buy anything 🤷🏼) ALL topped off with a shallow method of deciding on a persons worth from a photo "most of which are just lies with all sorts of filters and edits. Yes, they give you the option to create short, limited amount of characters, profiles... But we all know most people don't even read them. Remember when we were taught "don't talk to strangers"? Well, now it's "go to a strangers house and sleep with them". It's kinda fucked up in my opinion. I don't meet someone unless we've spoken on the phone or at least texted a actual phone number. Don't get me wrong, I've made a lot of really interesting and good friends from apps, but I'm not going to lure someone to my place and do something awful to them. I'm just hoping to find someone who's like-minded and finally get into a relationship. Because it's not common, and mostly considered creepy to approach someone and ask for a number... I'm almost forced to use these apps. (Which I'm almost certain that they're created to create a form of population control. Creating future generations of people with no attention span, no ethics and have no real thoughts of their own... we're really heading to an Idiocracy.) This is something that is constantly growing, but should be slowly falling into the category of "wow remember when we used to...".
There's no real reason to why I'm talking about this, just over thinking about these handheld lobotomies I'm currently typing on, and you are currently holding, and reading my take on another thing that is wrong with the world.
If you read this all... I'm curious to see what your response is. Let's use our brains a bit here. See if you can resist the easy, "I'm offended so here's an uneducated insult below the belt." like 99% of conversation on this also pretty mindless, but worldwide app.
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