I’m sorry for the vagueness of the question but bear w me here for a minute.

I was going through the top posts of this sub (new to this sub) and found some posts like how to get laid and stuff. You can check this post as being the top of all times. How to get laid like a warlord or something

This man suggests that if a woman ignores you , it’s a shit test and you should still pursue her. This coincides with how Robert green says that seduction is an active process and anyone can be seduced.

But I was re reading the rational male , came across this from the chapter of plate spinning :

"“It’s more of a spreading out of your efforts across a wider pool of subjects. Some will reciprocate, and those you entertain. Others will not, or prove to be less desirable, and those you let fall. ”

Excerpt From The Rational Male Tomassi, Rollo This material may be protected by copyright.

Those you let fall. Isn’t game about bettering yourself and being comfortable with letting go of those who don’t reciprocate genuine desire.

Sure , apparently acc to the seduction community seduction can be generated but besides seducing with your masculinity of being a man who has his shit together, do we really need to learn all else , if so will we ever be complete as a man.

I see a lot of posts here telling how to get “her" besides x y and z.

Isn’t there a problem here with this kind of thinking.

Isn’t the point that if you have to work towards making her desire you , she probably should be left alone and you should move on.

Shouldn’t we as men be focusing on our careers , lifting , bettering our selves and welcoming the women that want to join us (including initiation on our part too of course ) Rather than learning tricks , mental schemes to apply to seduce them.

I mean isn’t that actively seeking out women and isn’t that against the concept of "game"