I appreciate how she laid down the law for him here and let him know she ain’t his play thing. Even on the subject of mental health, which a lot of men use to degrade women and make them work for love/ convince them they’re of lesser value and deserve less/ can’t be the dream girl or are just someone to “settle for” because they have “issues”. She settled all in one line- I have my moments but I KNOW IM GOOD TO YOU. Anyone who is good to you, deserves good in return and a lot men use a women not having perfect circumstances a child, one or two things not right in her life or with her family to degrade her and say she isn’t worth it, doesnt deserve to be treated like a princess. The reality is- if she’s good to you and bringing you 100% and the vast majority of women will just by nature and how we’ve been socialized- she deserves that in return. She deserves that reciprocity

It’s a very self affirming angle. She still knows her value and still knows what it deserves to be met with. So much better than the “hE pUtS uP wItH mY cRaZy. iM sO gRaTeFuL” even women who are totally normal have been taught to self efface with and parrot. Like you’re some kind of basket case who should be grateful for his charity in even deigning to spend time with you or have you around

Having an imperfect life or background does not disqualify you as Queen material. You still deserve to be treated like one by him, especially if you are contributing to his life in significant ways. Don’t ever let a selfish man use that to shame and humiliate you into thinking deserve less, to cheat you out of what you deserve, especially when you are giving him 100%, all your love. That is a very significant thing to get from a woman.

Respect to New York for demanding respect for herself. Grown woman shit.

https://youtu.be/tMly6njm50o