I can't stop going back and forth to red pill youtube channels because these cheating situations bring back serious trust issues.

luridlurker · 2021-12-20T17:59:05+00:00

What do you think drove you to this cycle in the first place?

Seeking out and falling into confirmation bias often stems from a personal trauma you're not dealing with head on.

RedPillDetox · 2021-12-20T19:41:03+00:00

Why would you go to red pill channel over videos like this? Understand something, people... cheating and infidelity happen, it has always happened and will always happen. It's unfortunate, but there's not much one can do about it. Nobody contests that, what we contest is the notion that the overwhelming majority of women will do this at the sight on someone better because AWALT and hypergamy. That's just a deluded, poorly adjusted and toxic attitude that only deeply insecure people like TRPers believe in. Being a mature adult is accepting that you MAY indeed be cheated on, you MAY not find out about it ever and coping with it. All you can do is be a healthy human being yourself to make sure you won't attract trauma bonded people, be suspicious in the right measure within your relationship and hope for the best.

If you think that being red pill will prevent you from being cheated on you're very much wrong.

Academic_Type624 · 2021-12-20T22:28:45+00:00

I don't know if this will help but I can give you my perspective as a woman who cheated.

I was in a 15 year relationship and for the last year things were getting worse and worse (the problems ran longer than that, it just got really noticeable at that point) and I was the only one fighting for the relationship. I felt unappreciated and like I didn't matter. Then at work I met a guy who did show me those things. When I ended up making out with him on a night out and was seriously tempted to go back to his I knew it was time to end my relationship and I did so the next day. I'm not proud of what I did but I recognise I was so lonely and wanting affection that I turned elsewhere for it. I have learned a lot since then.

From what I've read most women cheat when, like me, their emotional needs aren't met. I know that there are exceptions to that. What comes down to you is believing in yourself enough to chose a good woman who will communicate with you and that you work to have a healthy loving mutually supportive relationship.

I'm not ex red pill but my ex had some of those tendencies and more than anything that is what ruined the relationship.

Carloverguy20 · 2021-12-20T23:07:56+00:00

Those videos are preying on your insecurities you can't trust them.

BMXTKD · 2021-12-20T21:30:21+00:00

Best thing I did to a cheating girlfriend. I moved on.

Slat3r10 · 2021-12-21T00:25:58+00:00

Unsubscribe to your red pill channels and start watching music reactions to your favorite music. The algorithm will weed out alot of the content. You still see stuff from time to time but if you focus on improving your self esteem. You wont be as vulnerable to clicking on that stuff. At least thats how Ive moved away from it

OutfitLeshawn · 2021-12-21T07:08:21+00:00

That's how they get you. Red pill channels feed off of people's anxiety & trust issues. You get addicted and might eventually get to a point where you donate them money & have live consultations about nothing

imfinnacry · 2021-12-24T22:00:20+00:00

You create the reality around you. Rather it’s self flagellation or algorithms, you are your surroundings. You must change it to change your perspective.

I can't stop going back and forth to red pill youtube channels because these cheating situations bring back serious trust issues.

Crosspost "Cold Game: Boyfriend Caught His Girl Cheating..." from /r/PublicFreakouts:

Comments

Title	I can't stop going back and forth to red pill youtube channels because these cheating situations bring back serious trust issues.
Author	According-Subject-92
Upvotes	12
Comments	18
Date	December 20, 2021 5:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/rks7h3/i_cant_stop_going_back_and_forth_to_red_pill/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/ExRedPill/i-cant-stop-going-back-and-forth-to-red-pill.1091509 https://theredarchive.com/post/1091509