I was good friends with a certain person a while ago. He took me lifting, I took him to a shooting range, we got drunk together, etc etc. Both of us had girlfriends so I assumed we were both getting laid. For some reason I remembered his reddit username years after and saw he uses this sub.

Even without knowing what the acronyms mean this sub is super entertaining. The more I read, the more it seems like this idea becomes a lifestyle and shapes who you are, how you interact and how you see the world. With this new outlook does your hobbies change? Or taste in music? Relationships with friends and non immediate family? The posts on here always talk about how women are so emotional and manipulative. If you suddenly change how you interact anyone with half a brain would know something is up; which would likely not salvage a failing relationship.

Creating an identity based on things from a forum designed to attract nerds further specializing in relationship problems seems like a bold move. I read about an hours worth posts and discussions before meeting up with a girl. If you look for the behavioral patterns described here you can see some of them play out in front of you. But that can warp your view. It is like the youtube mind games where if you focus hard on certain aspects of a video you miss obvious things or the main idea. Not every girl is honest, a liar, or a slut, or likes to be submissive, or is relationship material. In my experience you have to be yourself and not just apply blanket concepts to every girl, no way could that work efficiently. Women aren't that stupid, or at least the ones you'd want to be around longer than one night.

TLDR: But who am I, just some dumb internet stranger.