From a very young age, girls are taught that their value is based on their looks. Mom dresses her up and continually reinforces how pretty, cute and beautiful she is; she becomes a doll. Dad gives into his little girl as she learns quickly that the way to get what she wants is by appealing to his senses – by laughing, crying, smiling, hugging and praising; she awakens to her innate power over men. Women have extraordinary power and they can use it for good - to enhance a relationship or they can use it to hurt a man - even if it is indirect and out of complete disregard for his feelings. Unfortunately men who have not evolved and are simply drawn to physical beauty or feminine wiles don’t marry women with character and don’t appreciate until it’s too late and they are divorcing or ending the relationship