I'm 30 and just moved to a new city. I know a few people here, which is slowly leading me to knowing more and more people. But yesterday, for example, I felt stupidly left out at a party.

I was trying to talk to new people but had no success. People are most likely interested in being friends with someone over their level, but as I barely know anyone, maybe at first sight it doesn't seem like I can provide value. That's expected, we know it.

So what can I do? Offer free drugs?