Don't last long in bed. I come from 1-3 minutes. How can I fix this?

sj2k · 2016-08-12T06:16:44+00:00

Read the sex god method by daniel rose.

Also do edging, you probably, like many others, trained yourself to furiously masturbate just to orgasm as quickly as possible, and now your body has the same response with sex. Re-train yourself to not be a minute man. Edge because it feels good, like you want to fuck not just orgasm.

Also do reverse kegels. An overtly sensitive penis can be caused by the same issue above. When you slap your salmon as fast and hard as you can just to blow off as quickly as possible, you tighten your PC muscles because it forces more blood into the erection and makes and feel better, and makes you blow faster.

Tldr: Edge to re-train your body to last as long as it wants, not just to orgasm as fast as possible, using reverse kegel techniques to keep your PC muscle from contracting.

jzekyllandhyde · 2016-08-12T13:54:51+00:00

This post is right up my alley for I had the same problem.

First I'd recommend getting in shape, really good shape, be able to pick women up and move them around effortlessly and be able to jackhammer at times so that she feels dominated.

Second thrusting your dick is only effective if you're the largest dick she's ever had otherwise the purpose of moving your dick in and out is to slam her into the bed.

Before moving onto the third point I find that if you haven't had frequent sex it's difficult to not be nervous in bed, and that's fatal. You worry about cumming too soon, you worry about her pleasure, dick size, etc. this cannot be the mindset, it has to be force the woman to surrender. An orgasm was known as little death in French so think about sex as murdering a woman with your dick. You're getting her to submit to you.

Knowing that, your testosterone levels have to be high and you have to be on some sort of substance that gives you lots of energy, and maybe you can get that energy from lifting alone. You also have to realize that if she sees you as alpha she won't care if you cum quickly because she'll orgasm from you dominating her alone.

The biggest cause of premature ejaculation is that you're probably in positions where you're not in control. You need to be on top or in control, so doggy style is perfect either with you laying pipe on her or you pulling her back and forth on your dick. Someone suggested on one of my questions bending her over a bed or table and spearing her g spot. Pick her up and slam her against the bed in regular missionary or a wall in vertical missionary.

Do not underestimate the power of suffocation. If you take a tie and gradually tighten it around her neck her orgasm will be insane and this can be used as a backup method if you cum too quickly to make sure she orgasms when you do. A tie can also blindfold and gag and sometimes the reason for cumming too soon is the female is just too conscious and aware and is either critical and impatient or anxious and impatient. If you actually start dominating she'll relax in your hands and once she relaxes and submits keep your mouth shut but to make caveman noises and have fun in going to town. And once she submits there's no such thing as sex being too long. So go all night.

Kegeling is mighty important.

BusterVadge · 2016-08-12T12:44:54+00:00

What will work instantly, right away is 25mg of viagra. Obviously this is not a long term solution, but it could build your confidence enough to make you last longer without it.

SeekingTheWay · 2016-08-12T13:06:10+00:00

If you come too quick, make her come even quicker.

In my last pre-TRP relationship, 3 minutes was too quick. My current girl requires just something over a minute to come hard because I fuck her better. Now we come simultaneously and even though it's still the same 3 minutes, it's not a problem since we both get satistied.

Or, you know, get an uglier chick. A few months ago I picked up a HB6 to break a month dry spell and I could last for sooo long because she simply barely turned me on. Never again.

play_time_is_over · 2016-08-12T13:39:34+00:00

Cialis.

You will be a sex god overnight.

brooklynisburnin · 2016-08-12T22:45:07+00:00

Cutting every piece of porn helped me a lot, edging helped me a lot too, porn made me get too excited with the moans and screams, so I started focusing on what my dick was feeling instead of the girl, so far so good.

While masturbating, if you caught yourself picturing boobs and stuff, stop that, think about what your dick feels and your breathing.

Eilonar · 2016-08-12T06:08:43+00:00

Take out the thing in the middle of the toilet roll and throw it out. put a condom on the toilet roll, and create a fake vagina. Practice lasting for a loong time while watching porn or thinking about her

you can also reduce your sensitivity by hitting things with your penis. Like your stomach, or your male friends face

Disaster532385 · 2016-08-12T10:37:49+00:00

You suffer from premature ejaculation. This blog has a few good posts and links to resources to fix it. : http://www.risingmaster.com/resources/

FilthMonger85 · 2016-08-12T11:01:09+00:00

Fleshlight stamina trainer.

[deleted] · 2016-08-12T19:40:07+00:00

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onmyownpath · 2016-08-12T13:01:35+00:00

Edging for long periods of time. Then, do not cum just to teach your body who is boss.

Eventually edging with lotion.

Jerk off an hour before sex.

Get an escort and tell her you need help lasting longer. These women are professionals.

Also, fuck more women. You have oneitis because you gave her the V card. Instead of falling in love, you should have fucked many women. This helps more than you know.

Unpluggedredmist · 2016-08-12T13:04:40+00:00

I had exactly the same problem when I entered my ltr but I was still fucking plates for a good 45 mins then I'd go have sex with my gf n bust too quickly wtf. It's a mental block. Things that helped me: Edging Hill sprints, yes hill sprints until you vomit. These increase your endurance but the key factor is breathing control once you learn to open your lungs and slow down your heart rate you start to implement this during sex wen u you get close slow down n breathe, it takes a while but eventually you find yourself still smashing the life outta that pussy at a high tempo while controlling your breathing, it eventually becomes a powerful moment when you have her screaming at your will and your almost laughing because you know you have so much more to give. And finally think about sports or something you like when your close, that split second mental distraction takes your hamster away from thinking oh I'm gunnar CUM too soon shit I've CUM etc. Oh and one more if you can just bang through it, it's easier than you think quite often I ejaculate twice when am fucking coz I can, one over her face then one inside her.

[deleted] · 2016-08-12T14:17:43+00:00

Try this

InChargeMan · 2016-08-12T15:01:21+00:00

Evolution would push us to finish fast, so your 1-3 min is fine. First step is to realize this. If you were busting before you even started that would be a problem. This is not.

The "trick" is to not even worry about it, you finish when you feel like it. If you are getting close when she needs more, pull out and do other stuff for her (finger, oral, etc). Then after a bit go back in and finish strong.

The__Tren__Train · 2016-08-12T08:59:09+00:00

Look into pt 141... Won't keep from cumming, but it could help keep you hard after U blow ur load.

[deleted] · 2016-08-12T09:14:05+00:00

Squats

vorverk · 2016-08-12T10:29:55+00:00

Not really an answer to your question, but not coming soon enough was considered weakness in some places long ago.

rainyweathergirl · 2016-08-12T14:18:07+00:00

I thought that 1-3 minutes was normal.

Title	Don't last long in bed. I come from 1-3 minutes. How can I fix this?
Author	aznredpill
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Date	August 12, 2016 5:48 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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