I posted this over at /r/nofap/ and got only one response and I figured maybe to be better to ask here. Generally NoPorn seems common among TRPers. Anyway...

"I think I may be experiencing the flatline. I am not as large as I used to be. I can't stay as hard as I was when I have sex with my gf. Sex with her has become harder for me to do... and sometimes I am cumming prematurely. I used to be able to fuck her for 20minutes or more at a time but now I'll be lucky if I get 5 or 10.

This is scary shit! Has anyone gone thru this and know how long it will last?

edit: i want to add, the other night while sleeping I had dreams of watching porn."

Basically going noFap but still banging my gf... I have noticed decreased libido, decreased performance/size/endurance.

Is noFap itself truly healthy? Or will I come out of this in weeks from now? Is it healthy to Fap occasionally without Porn? Just using Imagination?

Can we discuss this here please?