I'm a woman and I like it here. Is there alot of women here?

Kindly-Town · 2022-02-08T10:41:56+00:00

My Dom said they were just trying to intimidate me by inflating the risk of legal issues

Many organisations get government funding and donations if they can show statistics high enough to qualify for funding. So these people look for potential scenarios where they can twist cases in a way to involve law enforcement because a government attested copy of arrest is enough to lift their statistics.

Even being a woman makes me feel ashamed because of how many are misbehaving and causing men so many horrible problems

Don't be. Women aren't a monolithic group. Other women are not you, they are not your family, you don't represent them.

Other men don't take my approval, they don't take my order, they don't start their day by telling me first. What other men do or did is not my accountability.

Once we start seeing bad people as individuals, it becomes easier to criticise them because as a group everybody else becomes defensive instead of holding the bad one accountable.

The problem with feminism is they see both men and women as a monolithic group and they represent themselves as representative of women without the consensus while for men they represent criminals again without the consensus.

ImplodedPotatoSalad · 2022-02-08T11:38:27+00:00

Aaand this is why getting into BDSM is not a wise idea nowadays imo. It just takes her single one sided decision later down the line, and im a villian without any real mode of recovery in society.

nyarlathotep999 · 2022-02-08T10:38:30+00:00

Interesting article

MDot_Cartier · 2022-02-08T13:09:02+00:00

Just use your voice in your community to do what you think is the right thing. That's all we can ask.

5ilenceIsAssent · 2022-02-08T13:32:00+00:00

There aren't a lot of women here if you don't count the misandrist trolls. Your presence and contribution is deeply valued here.

Super_Solver · 2022-02-08T13:04:21+00:00

Good article! Try not to beat yourself up over other peoples’ actions. You just try to be the best person you can be to yourself and others. Feminism and other social issue groups can get really vague and even hypocritical, so I focus on individuals.

Title	I'm a woman and I like it here. Is there alot of women here?
Author	karismakats
Upvotes	54
Comments	20
Date	February 8, 2022 9:43 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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