Just need to know whether I did the right thing here guys as the blue feels are starting to kick in. An ex recently threw a going away party which she invited me to by saying "I don't care if you'd want to come". I don't go as she had been recently spreading some pretty bad rumors about me to our social circle. Anyway, her friends said that it would have "meant a lot" to her if I had went and that she was upset. Now I'm starting to feel bad but I feel that I was justified in not attending. I shouldn't feel guilty right?