Well Wednesday wife called the navy... Read prior posts.

Told them there was an arrest warrant, as well as charges for abuse and child endangerment etc.

Turned myself in... The charge? Disorderly conduct. For an event I filled a restraining order on her for a month ago and, for flicking my daughter mouth after she was disrespectful ( same way we have always done it for years), and that I followed her... At a casino down the road from me. She lives across the state 40 mins away by another one. When there was no reason not to be there. Had I not left as soon as I knew she was there sure... Had I gone to the one by her house sure.. but ok I guess.

5k later on bail I was out same day. Next day in front of the judge he approves the restraining order on me.

Go to court on the 18, have to do all sorts of classes and maybe the state will drop the charges.

No record on me at all for any thing ever. First time in jail, not even a speeding ticket in the last 10 years.

Lawyer is pissed, gave him the video and audio recording of her saying a man can't be raped that she had the restraining order for before, and she would do what she has too to make things go her way. Including her saying she would claim that. As well as her hitting me and the kids saying to stop.

It's clear the boy friend got pissed and coached her (agent) on what to write... Very specific.

But she messed up one detail. Where she stated I touched/pushed her. The state trooper that was there that night was told by her and to my supervisor that picked me up, I never touched her.

So now today I get a call again from a state trooper that she called, said I was harassing her. I called my friend. They didnt pick up. Left message saying "I need someone to talk to"

State trooper sided with me. Said to make sure I don't call her or family, or have third party call her or family.

Jesus Christ, so I call/text my whole damn side of the family and say don't call, text or even look her way. Sister rings back to me and says she's been called by her several times and was about to call her back... Fuck no don't do it.

Week two of not seeing my girls again, was my weekend, missed a my girls first play. The list goes on.

Well guess the agency has now reached out to me, lawyer said to wait before I fry that.

Other reason she's jumped is because I told her I was not going to let her leave the state with my girl as that's not fair visitation. Her response was I can't afford to live here.... Not my problem girl...this was sat prior

Stay strong guys, and if your getting started like I am good luck it's a bumpy road.

Only real issue for her now is i requested back in Feb what she needed money wise a month... Or an account to send it too. So... Now I can't give her anything because that's electronic communication if I put money in the joint account... So I guess I have to wait till her lawyer request it now. At least that's what mine has said to do for now.

I did pay for the car, insurance, trailer, etc to the tune of about 1200$ so far this month.

Let's be amicable my big white ass.

File first, set stipulation to claim the living area, and visitation and then don't fucking talk to her. Cameras... Have them no matter what. My dash cam may very well save my ass and give me both kids.