Is it wrong that I’m worried about the next generation of men?

Vinniikii · 2022-03-29T19:27:37+00:00

It is terrifying, especially if you have experience on the inside and know the combination of misandry, self-loathing, and general unprocessed anger that permeates these supposedly loving gender theorists.

Problem is that many men just do not biologically fit into old competency culture or new identity boxes. We’re told feminism includes all gender but then you actually sit in the room with traumatized people who believe competency is oppressive and YesAllMen should be killed/castrated. Most children can’t process the doublethink, it’s easier to turn to self harm and drastic body modification than thread the needle between oppressive accomplishment and desireable self erasure.

Currently, the humanists dominating the conversation have convinced Resdit America that humanism is simply male erasure. Clearly this is false, the combination of detransition and trans athletics is already revealing the inherent self defeating of any exclusionary philosophy based around punishing people for the circumstances of their birth.

One meme I think of right now is working class African American tiktok creators creating posts complaining about how “their own people are the hardest tables.” Or the Trans creators of the previous generation, shamed and belittled by uniformed college students. It is a feature and not a bug that young men are simultaneously most oppressed and the least helped. But current anti-male sentiment has run amok, most people can’t support the hate, they tolerate complacent prosperity.

ThrillaDaGuerilla · 2022-03-29T20:57:59+00:00

Don't sweat it....there's ALWAYS a place for the masculine man.

Wherever there's a place for them, there will be dudes to fill the role.

Lower-Ticket-4899 · 2022-03-29T18:24:44+00:00

From what I’ve seen the younger generation is already tired of all this PC bullshit. That’s probably why the people who are pushing to turn men into sniveling babies are fighting so hard to be allowed to groom children in school and take all rights away from parents. We’re building a society where it’s promoted to be weak, ineffective, and be a victim. We went from founding our country by killing people in their sleep in Christmas, to needing safe spaces because clapping is too aggressive and having different opinions is assault.

TheSilverShade · 2022-03-29T23:49:35+00:00

Why do you think men minding their own business, going their own way and talking what's on their mind is frowned upon ?

You're right to worry.

extranotextra · 2022-03-30T01:43:46+00:00

Boys aren’t acting like girls, they are rejecting the idea that there’s only one right way to be a man. Gen Z doesn’t care about conformity. They’re more about self expression and fluidity.

tasfa10 · 2022-03-30T01:24:49+00:00

It takes more balls to be a boy in a dress than to conform to the expectations put upon you. What's this "soyboy" bullshit of a vocabulary? Why does anyone have to dress how you think they should? Men's liberation must accept men being whatever the fuck they feel like being. You grow some balls and side with men who don't conform to the expectations forced on them instead of being a pussy and siding with the social pressure of the majority of those who're all alike because they didn't have the courage to be themselves.

NoLettuce7713 · 2022-03-30T00:02:30+00:00

Even when I was a dorky 12-13 year old with braces, bigger glasses, stupid hair and a body going through puberty, I was still a guy.

I feel like there's a conflict between what you're saying in your last paragraph and the first sentence of your post.

On the one hand, you're saying that you're not a "macho manly man", but on the other hand you are using language like "soyboy", "grow some balls" and "real man" - terms whose purpose is to police the way other men and boys embody their own maleness. Do you believe it would have helped you as a 12-13 year old if men had used that language with you?

IlikestonesO_o · 2022-03-29T19:08:30+00:00

No its not wrong... its understandable.

Hot-Influence320 · 2022-03-29T20:07:36+00:00

Go away tradcuck troll. Or maybe you are a more of a feminist/TERF concern troll? In any case you have nothing to do on this sub.

Title	Is it wrong that I’m worried about the next generation of men?
Author	Mother-Key582
Upvotes	18
Comments	17
Date	March 29, 2022 6:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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