After my last LTR ended I realized I had a lot to work on as a human being outside of dating/relationships. I’ve since been voluntarily celibate and am wondering to what detriment in the future when I want to date again.

Will women see my lack of desiring a relationship to work on myself actually as a red flag? What are PPDs thoughts on voluntary celibacy? Should more men actively practice it and withhold sex from women?

I have frequently had to deny women over the last couple of years and it’s been kinda empowering in its own right. I personally think men should practice voluntary celibacy for some period of time to learn who they are outside of the search for romance or flings.