Competition is fierce. I made a fake female PoF account and got 217 messages in one day from different men. Granted the girl i used was a solid 7/10, had a large bust, and really thick but still a little ridiculous. If your not physically aesthetic you won't even get a chance to get your foot in the door. Even if you are physically aesthetic theres still a line of attractive men that she has to choose from. At this point it comes down to confidence or money but only the really rich guys can come out on top to compensate for their lack of confidence (only top 1% of men). Basically women can treat you any way they want too because they know they have hundreds of options to choose from and your expected to put on a show for them.

I blame social media for this. The girls have over-inflated egos and crazy expectations (thanks to facebook PoF and other online social medias). Unrealistic standards, and the feminist are making things worse. You have top cream of the crop aesthetic looking men with a degree who are lonely, depressed and struggling to get some action. Where as you have 6/10 females who work at mcdonalds with the personality of a fart who are getting plenty of attention and action. Sadly nothings going to change anytime soon because the current system is making men more desperate and thirsty and woman more picky and flakey.

At this point i think the only solution would be too legalize prostitution. It's the only way to even the playing field so that desperate men will stop chasing and validating 3/10 whales. Even then men would probably still chase them because you need to use protection for prostitutes and men want raw sex. Hell you can get a prostitute now with relative ease, but men are still chasing like hounds.

I've done over 100 cold approaches. I see the game for what it really is. A dystopia. One in which we helped create.