GF says she is nervous to have sex because she respects me???

BPasFuck · 2016-09-17T06:31:16+00:00

Look, you're getting fixated on useless minutia here.

What you need to be aware of, is this chick doesn't see you as Mr. Good Times Fuck City, esq.

She sees you as a bit of a provider chump, instead.

If she just wanted to fuck-- you'd be fucking.

Instead, you've aroused other feelings, commitment type feelings.

This kind of crazy is what happens when you do this with a girl that hasn't earned your commitment.

She knows she hasn't.

So-- stop acting so much like a boyfriend, and more like a dude who fucks. If you're not sure how that works, you need to read some more of the better threads on the main page.

dandar4600 · 2016-09-17T11:07:32+00:00

You fucked it up by making her your girlfriend without having her earn it first. You're on TRP. You're 23. What does TRP say about making girls into girlfriends? It’s sex first, then relationship, not the other way around. You obviously have not read the sidebar.

For the record, what she is doing is covered by The Rational Male in Wait for it? and in The Desire Dynamic.

RedPillQuickie · 2016-09-17T08:43:51+00:00

You're beta bux.

TehJimmyy · 2016-09-17T12:35:22+00:00

I was in the same stuff like you . First she asked my partners. Even if you lie to her, you already lost hearing that question.She doesnt see you a sex partner to that point.If she did she wouldnt ask for confirmation. Only reason to ask you that is to know if she is REALLY missing/missed a chance with you or not. Feeling desired by lots of women makes her desire you too.

As most people say here its like because you commited without her earning it and now you are friendzoned.

I know it is hard especially if you have oneitis but

Next her

youcantdenythat · 2016-09-17T14:54:31+00:00

Stop listening to what she says. Stop talking about having sex. Lead her and watch what she does.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-09-17T15:32:00+00:00

she is intimidated to have sex quickly because she is afraid I will be disappointed or something.

Tell her you'll be disappointed if you don't have sex.

Escalate as normal. Go get her, tiger.

RPAlternate42 · 2016-09-17T16:36:37+00:00

"I understand. It seems like you need some space to think things through. I'll see you later. Goodnight."

And then leave, or walk her to your door.

Disregard until she comes back to you.

the-bum-hammer · 2016-09-17T16:59:42+00:00

But she has also said she has hooked up before. The fuck is going on? How does waiting for sex because you actually like the person make sense?

This is cliché stuff going on here.

She'll fuck the guys worthy of fucking right off the bat.
She'll make the pussy guy wait for, at best, dried pussy and NO, she doesn't give blowjobs, so don't ask.

The fact that she's making you wait and you're waiting shows her your true character – a pussy she can use for anything without ever having to even look at your dick.

Game over with this one.

y00nicorn · 2016-09-17T12:51:45+00:00

I'm a girl and I can totally relate to her. She sounds insecure (I'm also insecure and I would have reacted the same way). If you actually like her, try to make her feel comfortable around you. Tell her everything is alright (better yet: show her everything is alright, be affectionate). Once you've earned her trust she'll be more likely to give in to you sexually.

Title	GF says she is nervous to have sex because she respects me???
Author	trumpet19019
Upvotes	0
Comments	22
Date	September 17, 2016 6:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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