During my teen years, I was pretty much a simp. I would fixate on one woman, as if she is the only woman in the world - the scarce resource mentality. I had to do everything to make her like me, and my mind would immediately gravitate towards marriage, as if she is the only option available.. Through experience and participating in redpilled communities, I've become a completely different man. I am usually chatting with 5+ women (a harem, if you will) at a time. I have the exact same convos, send the exact same memes, say the same jokes, to all of them. If I'm texting and one doesn't respond, I don't even realize anymore because I'm chatting with too many women to keep track of all the convos. I also find myself ghosting women now - if there is something that I don't like about them, I find a replacement, thinking there is nothing really special about them and that I could find a better girl elsewhere. I feel like I've become kind of cold now. I no longer view women as princesses as I did in my teens. One of the benefits, I'll say, is that I no longer feel heartbroken if things don't work out for whatever reason.

Is it wrong to view women in this regard? I already know the redpilled response. I am looking more from a Christian perspective.