The level of misandry and even racism in the comments.

Glittering_Adagio758 · 2022-05-10T05:20:36+00:00

Imagine gender swapping this

[deleted] · 2022-05-10T08:05:01+00:00

Man, I’d love to make a post saying Why are women so gross and creepy? and share my fair share of experiences. But then again…

And this just comes to show how fucked up people’s mindsets are.

Life-Factor-9974 · 2022-05-10T07:10:30+00:00

Unpopular/ politically incorrect opinion: women find most men 'creepy / gross' because they see most men as unattractive.

Obviously, anybody can exhibit genuine gross traits and behaviour regardless of how attractive they are, but let's not pretend that many women don't give ridiculous passes for men who are overtly sexist, crass and 'creepy' when said men are hot enough. Hell, I've known women who literally excuse and rationalise men who abuse them or men who they're dating who are criminals because they find them that attractive.

Its a pretty well-known meme by this point how the difference between asking for a woman's number being potentially considered harassment and making her day is how hot she thinks you are. And it's readily evident / observable that this also extends to her perception of your overall behaviour too.

There's been multiple studies carried out which show that women generally tend to rate only a smallish % of men as 'attractive' (around 15%-20%) of men. Whereas men tend to rate women on a more natural bell-curve gradient. An unfortunate fact of human social interaction and psychology is that we tend to be quite superficial before we get to know people. Beautifully people are repeatedly perceived as more charismatic, more trustworthy and more respectable in studies undertaken. Imagine if you saw roughly 8/10 members of the opposite sex as at best unappealing and at worst downright repulsive. You'd want little to nothing to do with them, and if they interacted with you, especially sexually, you'd likely find it a situation you wanted to get away from ASAP on a good day, and vomit-inducingly gross on a bad day.

I'm of course making big generalisations here, but that's what trend observation and social theory is tbh. Just my 2 cents on this notion of "men being creepy". And I've seen it play out in person too. I'm by no means ugly but not exactly Brad Pitt. I'm an average looking guy, average height, average everything. But I have a friend who is the literal definition of a Chad. 6'3", well-built, a good head of hair and rugged yet handsome features. We have been out at a bar / club many times and it is such a stark difference in how women perceive him vs how they perceive me. This dude can pretty much say whatever (and I mean whatever) he wants and women will just giggle away, or they'll carry on the convo pleasantly if he says something blunt or rude. If I said similar things to women (and yes, I've tried), they look at me like I'm from the planet Mars.

As for 'creepy' this guy just walks up to women and starts grinding on them and the reception is generally smiles and positive response. I try to do that? Well, I've had more than my fair share of shoves, "go away" and even threats to get the bouncer involved (for simply approaching and trying to talk or dance with a girl). Indeed, this is an anecdotal situation but I feel like many men can attest to similar experiences in their own lives.

JayTheFordMan · 2022-05-10T06:15:54+00:00

I've been groped more times by women that I have ever seen women get groped. Anecdotal perhaps, but I'm pretty sure both sexes can get nasty

External-Hedgehog810 · 2022-05-10T05:49:41+00:00

I don't believe her fake story

Sir-Woodship · 2022-05-10T06:08:14+00:00

i like to be gross and creepy, that way People leave me alone.

Indigostorm27 · 2022-05-10T12:08:00+00:00

Remember that vid of that drunk woman kissing shirts at the club?

But they don't talk about that.

functionalsociopathy · 2022-05-10T13:49:13+00:00

Removed by mods. Looks like some of the mod groups are getting sweaty after fds got nuked.

traveller1976 · 2022-05-10T12:46:42+00:00

That's OK, the same women hating on men are screaming inside wondering how they can trap one into lifetime servitude, preferably with great wealth and power. Any woman that detests men should be avoided like radioactive waste, let them burn. Men the only solution is no commitments, no pregnancy, except the 1 in a million true traditional woman.

DeathlessWitch · 2022-05-10T10:09:38+00:00

Just went there, it's just... painful.

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-05-10T09:06:22+00:00

The main post got deleted, which is cool even though the Reddit mods say they don't care about men or you white guys when it comes to getting attacked, I'm not going to read the comment because I'm sure a lot of them are feminists or white knights or simps and possibly race hustlers, those kind of individuals are the bottom barrel of our society they're trash

blurr3k · 2022-05-10T10:18:41+00:00

now lets post the same thing with "women" instead of "men"

EngineeringDry6717 · 2022-05-10T10:23:36+00:00

Wow this is scary

Regular_Principle_66 · 2022-05-10T11:35:51+00:00

women surely don't give men any unwanted attention

surely, unwanted hugs and touching and all that shit isn't real

for real, I don't know if it's just me, but it does happen from women, and it's fucking annoying and awkward.

ShitFauxBrains · 2022-05-10T15:35:00+00:00

my question would be why are women such vile narcissistic cunts? wouldn’t that go over well!!

battirider · 2022-05-10T16:50:40+00:00

The thing is, feminism was & has never been about equality, neither for the sexes or the races.

I expect nothing less from a movement / organisation born from white, female supremacy.

I expect some recrimination & biteback in the comments, but Google or whatever search engine is free, go avail yourself of the multitude of available sources. God speed.

coolboy_24278 · 2022-05-10T16:38:56+00:00

who cares about the general opinions of those in offmychest. that sub, their mods, and the redditors there are very woke and post nonsense like this most of the time

DeLovehlyCoconute · 2022-05-10T17:53:10+00:00

They were really saying that men don't deal with assault. Literally all statistics say it's 50/50... I wonder how these women feel about their close male friends and family members. Certainly not any form of respect.

Quicksilver-Ottergen · 2022-05-10T17:55:32+00:00

The post was removed/privated.

NewAccount479909632 · 2022-05-10T16:09:13+00:00

“Why are black people so violent”

Do you see why over generalizations are wrong?

Disastrous_Pangolin3 · 2022-05-11T14:09:22+00:00

Meanwhile i just woke up to an article telling locals about the 25 year old woman that abducted someone's 4 year old son right before seeing this.

DevMaxStarfish · 2022-05-11T17:40:06+00:00

Imma be real, most of these comments are just them describing horrid events that occurred to them. They aren’t really saying “All men are bad.” (At least, I haven’t SEEN anything like that) maybe they removed the racist and misogynistic content??? Can’t find many examples I guess

KickedSharf798 · 2022-05-17T21:21:30+00:00

It is true that there are men like this (but there are also women). But you shouldn't generalize all men as creepy and gross.

The level of misandry and even racism in the comments.

Crosspost "Why are men so gross and creepy?" from /r/offmychest:

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Title	The level of misandry and even racism in the comments.
Author	Silencio00
Upvotes	219
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Date	May 10, 2022 5:15 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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