As a guy testing the waters, sometimes I would acquaint with ladies ain't that conventionally attractive but I give them my time, because why not? Though the beer makes 'em look like a 10. It's not they look 100%, it's their lifestyle, their attitude and behaviors that turn me off after getting to know them more.

But getting king treatment, acts of service, they bomb me with this shit and I can't help but to act nice back. Do I give them tail in exchange? Often times, this get confused with exclusivity. It is nice to get her come to my home when I'm tired and get a feed massage. It is good to have someone just cook in the morning too. This makes me feel lazy and kicking them out makes me an asshole. What to do?