What women say they want is completely and utterly different to what they actually want. Usually what men what is clear as day. The only cognitive dissonance is present with women.

Women generally say they want someone who is good, remembers your birthday, buys you gifts, treats you well. That’s what they say is the primary attractor for them.

In reality it doesn’t even matter about the above when initially attracting a women. What matter is are they

  1. Tall
  2. Do they have a big frame
  3. Do they have a strong jawline
  4. Are they conventionally attractive?
  5. (Majority of the time are they white?)
  6. Are they financially successful
  7. Are they home owners?
  8. Is there face nice looking?

If you’re an amazing human being but don’t have the above consider yourself a deadman walking. You’re not gonna get laid. Full stop.