I have been speaking recently with my LTR about some sex scenarios. So there was this office setting idea about secretary or female boss. I jokingly try to sometimes refer to her as sexy secretary (when she wears glasses and skirt it really fits)

But she tries to steer all the time towards female boss scenario. In terms of sex it is fun from time to time. But what I want is the traditional man over woman dominance. I do not want to go into such area because of this.

Just recently we have been chatting via sms about this and I said that I do not need any female boss, just a sexy secretary she said "we can switch roles, I can be both a sexy secretary and a female boss"

I see this as an shit test right now and before answering I wanted to ask for help here. I plan to respond something along: "Not for me for sure" how would you respond?