Do you know that good eye contact conveys confidence without saying a word? If you can't hold eye contact or you look down at the floor when you talk to women, you will turn her off, even if you look like a male model. A man who can hold eye contact can spike a woman's attraction for a man. Don't try to hold good eye contact to get a woman to fall in love with you. No, hold good eye contact to let women know you're good at handling tension and you have a high level of self-confidence.
Hold Eye Contact Until She Breaks Eye Contact
A fun game you can play is looking at a woman from across the room and holding eye contact with her until she looks away. This is very intimidating because you may feel like you're being cringey. This is a good exercise to overcome that feeling. Not gonna lie, when I hold eye contact with women from across the room for a long time, the thought of me being cringey enters my mind, this is what makes this little game so fun. You are training yourself to overcome that feeling and make your eye contact convey that you're confident and can create a bubble where it's just you and the woman you are holding eye contact with.
The better you get at holding eye contact, if she likes you, the more you'll notice her looking for your eyes to meet hers. This can be considered a "choosing signal". When you notice women doing this to you, it can help cold approaching women easier. When you are talking to her, hold eye contact and create that bubble effect where she starts to get lost in your eyes.
Do This With 5-10 Women A Day
If a man can hold eye contact with a woman, cold approaching and talking to women doesn't seem so hard to do. Not a lot of men can hold eye contact with women because they either get intimidated or they don't want to creep the woman out. The more you practice holding eye contact, the more attraction and chemistry you can build with women who actually like you.
Don't Feel Bad If Women Avoid Eye Contact With You
The goal of this little game is to get better at holding eye contact, not to get women to fall in love with you who aren't attracted to you. By playing this little game, you may notice women holding eye contact with you and you will notice women avoiding eye contact with you. Take it as feedback. If she's avoiding eye contact at all cost, stop trying to hold eye contact with her. The goal is not to make women feel uncomfortable, but build a bubble effect where it's just you and the woman you're sharing eye contact with.
If You Get Good At Holding Eye Contact, The Women You Get With Will Feel Drawn To You
Brian Begin of The Fearless Man (a YouTube channel) talks about masculine men being able to create a container (bubble effect) around women. It's kinda like a feeling of "being the only two people in a room in a crowded room" (if that makes any sense).
"It's just eye contact, you're making it seem like it's a magical power"
Women love confident men and good eye contact conveys confidence. Women are attracted to a man's confidence and self-assurance. You may struggle with looking women in the eye, but trust me, when you get over the feeling of being creepy holding eye contact, you notice all the glances and stares you are getting from women.
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