M 25 she is 28.

We have two kids 1/4.

I’ve just packed all of my things and walked out. I have just stumbled across this page. What the fuck can I do to fix this?

I walked out because I’ve worked 45 days straight and I come home and she hasn’t cleaned and I have been kindly asking her to clean for two weeks during this time.

Her excuse is she’s busy with the kids all day.. I didn’t specifically leave because she hadn’t cleaned but because she said I’m a terrible father because I haven’t been around enough and I should be the one cleaning because she has the kids.

Yes I likely overreacted by completely packing all of y things. She has a history of nagging, which after reading a bunch of things here is probably my fault for not owning my shit and being a fucking man.

ShouldI go back? I don’t want to be away from my kids. They mean everything to me.

She has been begging for me to come back and suggests counselling for us. Which I don’t believe in. How do I re-enter this relationship without looking like a lost dog coming back home?

And yes I WILL READ THE SIDEBAR AND EVERYTHING ELSE IMMEDIATELY.