Not happy in relationship anymore.

BobbyPeru · 2022-04-01T07:21:39+00:00

You haven’t really given any details, so how are we supposed to help you?

What work have you done on yourself? Most often, women are disrespectful when their man lacks frame.

What have you read on the sidebar? What are the issues, and what changes have you made?

Rakanidjou · 2022-04-01T08:10:16+00:00

You don't need a justification to leave and certainly not from any of us. You can and should make your own choices.

With that being said, can you detail a bit more they ways you feel disrespected ? With the distance we have from your situation, we might be able to have relevant feedback.

Give us something to work with.

HornsOfApathy · 2022-04-01T10:27:32+00:00

This sounds tough. Have you tried rubbing her butthole?

Chard-Far · 2022-04-01T09:02:56+00:00

Have you tried owning your shit?

SBIII · 2022-04-01T09:29:38+00:00

The problem with employing the "Dread Process" as outlined by Athol Kay and then regurgitated by BPP is that it is one massive Covert Contract. The sales pitch behind it is that if you get your shit together by following the steps, it will get you a place where you can issue an ultimatum to your wife and she will either break down in front of you, ready to submit to your newly found "Alpha Status" (crying with "snot bubbles") or - if not - you will be at a stage in your life where you don't really don't give a shit what her reaction is and you're ready to blow it all up and move on. Because now you have options. This is basically the MRP version of a Monkey Branch Swing.

What could possibly go wrong?

Well, a lot of things, clearly. While the "Dread Process" does have some positive aspects to it, in that it guides you onto a path of self improvement - a lot of this self improvement is dressage.. dressing better, getting in shape, social skills etc.. and a lot of it is based on the "fake it till you make it" line of thought.

Where it falls flat, is that - in my opinion - none of the authors who wrote the Dread books ever actually "made it", so they've missed out on the final piece of the jigsaw... as have you.

The fact that you've spent the last two years trying to "make it (the relationship) work" is a pretty clear indication of this. So, you've been on the Dancing Monkey Improvement Program in the vain attempt to get your wife to fall into line.

That was always doomed to fail. It probably improved your life in many respects but in reality, it most likely just built your into a Better Beta.

I can't tell you exactly where you've fucked up here - there could be a myriad of reasons, like:

- you're a boring cunt

- you have no mission other that keeping your marriage together

- your cock smells like cheese

- your wife is damaged goods

But one thing is clear - you're failing because you've missed out on the fundamental point that MRP is just a set of tools and not a prescriptive Course that gets you a Degree in Relationship Success.

So, no wonder you're here after two years with an alt. account wondering where the fuck it all went wrong for you.. you bought the sales pitch, drank the snake oil and thought you'd be cured.

It ain't that simple, dude. Not by a long shot.

Title	Not happy in relationship anymore.
Author	SirQuads
Upvotes	5
Comments	29
Date	April 1, 2022 6:43 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/ttkcsp/not_happy_in_relationship_anymore/
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