We tried to warn yall but got called NiceGuys™.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2022-07-03T22:20:12+00:00

"Why do we blame women?" Pffsht. Look: There are a lot of dodgy and dishonest men out there. Living in a society, you will inevitably run into a lot of liars, grifters, boozers, pill-heads, con-artists and, worst of all, a small number of violent people. Nobody denies this. And everybody spends a lot of time blaming them, pushing-back at them and even jailing them. Yeah, you can try to change them or whatever, but you can't change and fix everybody.

Furthermore, yes, a certain number of women out there like "Bad Boys." They are free to like who they like as long as they don't come crying for sympathy about the obvious, foreseeable consequences (which they will go and cry about anyway). And they have parents and relatives who say things like "stay away from that troublemaker" but they chafe at the parental guidance and rebel against it and then later act as if nobody had warned them in the first place.

What people seem to love denying is that a certain number of women out there also have-- to put it kindly-- broken danger detectors where they can't seem to realize when somebody is bad news. Another group of women (though there is some overlap to these groups) will willfully ignore a man's obvious red flags and assume: "he won't hurt me because I can control him with my magic vagina." Well, sorry, but that isn't a very smart strategy to hang your safety and well-being upon.

I knew one woman who had the disastrous luck to possess all three traits: an attaction to "bad boys" (her words), a broken danger detector and a belief that her magic vagina would help her control "her man". She had 2 contradictory ideas in her head which were: "I like bad boys cuz they follow their own rules, tee hee" and "my magic vagina will protect me because he'll follow that rule, tee hee." And-- predictably-- it never worked out for her. Because, first "he doesn't follow your rules, Miss!" and "what about all the other magic vaginas out there on planet earth? Is he immune to those?" And she lived her early 20s like that, despite everybody around her warning her about what she was doing (including myself), but she had her stupid fantasy which she preferred more than the actual reality she was living in: she had voluntarily become a brainless fucktoy for a series of bad boys. And she continued doing this, no matter how many lousy experiences and black eyes she got.

At any rate, today she's a fat, broke single mom and I absolutely 100% blame her for her poor choices.

ScribhneoirIldanach · 2022-07-03T13:26:50+00:00

Or “InSSSSSeeeeeLLLLLssss”

Joaquino7997 · 2022-07-03T13:27:28+00:00

Yeah we tried, and now we've decided...why bother??

I've given some serious thought to invest in Orville Redenbacher's popcorn and watch these shit shows play out. Netflix has NOTHING on this crap (pardon the pun)!

mustangfrank · 2022-07-03T19:27:50+00:00

Women are the gate keepers of sex. Women choose who they want to have relationships with. The man initiates his interest in her, but she accepts or rejects him. It is HER choice, not his. If the man turns out to be a shitbag, it was her choice. But women refuse to acknowledge their failures and bad choices by blaming the man they choose as the problem. (If your baby daddy ain’t worth shit, then why did you let him into your vagina?)

No doubt men can be shitbags and men do shitty things all the time. If you don't want shitbags, then stop having sex with shitbags. If you don't want shitbag husbands, then stop marrying shitbags. If you don't want shitbags fathering your children, stop letting shitbags impregnate you. Want to know why men act like shitbags? Because women reward them for acting like shitbags. Women give shitbags lots of sex, lots of attention, and lots of deference and respect. When you reward shitbaggery, you get shitbags.

Think about this. If overnight, instead of women rewarding shitbags with sex, they rewarded the kindest, most loving, most caring, honest, hard working men, socially responsible men of society, all children would be loved and cared for and all women loved and protected. So ladies, step up to the plate and choose a good man for once, instead of f*cking the bad boys you complain so much about. That would be a real change for the better for everyone.

Such behavior would facilitate the creation of more good men. It would incentivize positive behavior from men and at the same time stigmatizing bad behavior women claim to hate. The problem is that women don’t hate such behavior, or if they do, their lust for Chad, Bad Boy, Gangbanger, Thug, Criminal, Ex-Con, etc., overcomes any hatred of bad behavior by these men. Women’s tingles override logic and reason. But for those women who choose the “tingles” mating strategy, it has been shown over and over again to end in failure. We don’t live in cave man times anymore. The days of Brains over Braun are here. And women who live in a bygone era of “tingles” lose, and lose big time. As proof, all one has to do is look at the kind of men single moms choose. Were they good men? Most likely not. They chose tingles and lost. A few of these single moms will find a Billy Beta to support them, but even the Billys are starting to wake up to the down sides of dating single moms.

I used to believe that good honest women sometimes made bad choices. Now, I know that is not true. This may be true for a very few, many more women pretend that they don’t want shitbags, but years of their choices are evidence to the contrary. Shitbags choose shitbags.

Updated 6/30/2022

A Woman commented: look, when I was in my early tweinties I was having fun and it’s okey to do so; stop telling me women should just stick to find a husband in her 30s; and yes, you’re right, I rejected good guys and went for assholes, and I may enda up alone and I’m sad about it. BUT I don’t regret enjoying my 20s and fucking around a bit (cool guys get to do this, cool girls who like sex may get to do that as well, right? or we’rre just on earth to find a husband?)

Intelligent-Bet-8507 · 2022-07-03T14:56:11+00:00

They will never see the double standard

alldaycray · 2022-07-03T15:44:20+00:00

It's like buying a car without an engine then being surprised it doesn't run.

DrDog09 · 2022-07-04T22:29:40+00:00

Simply put -- double standard with no hint of human nature.

Not too long ago Dad stopped that kind of sh#* in its tracks early on. The bullsh%^ meter was always running when a daughter was involved. By osmosis spawn figured out before it ruined their lives because of Dad.

Now, he is viewed as an ATM.

Adventurous_Link_847 · 2022-07-05T06:32:53+00:00

They're perfectly within their rights to choose a wolf as a sheepdog, they just need to know to not come running for sympathy when it eats their sheep.

Aromatic_Shop9033 · 2022-07-18T23:25:47+00:00

I've no sympathy for these women that waste their best years being used...and end up alone, single mothers.

You had the keys to the kingdom, and chose to sleep in the filthy bog.

"Why does no good man want meeee?!"

I can't imagine why.

Title	We tried to warn yall but got called NiceGuys™.
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	160
Comments	19
Date	July 3, 2022 1:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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