Is a Female Friend Red Pill?

poclitically_corekt · 2017-08-15T12:42:27+00:00

Whatever man--if you like hanging out with her and don't feel the urge to fuck her, what difference does it make? Don't get so rigid by trying to stuff life into a red pill/not red pill dichotomy. Just be honest with yourself about the situation. If you're secretly trying to pivot into the pink, this is definitely not the way.

oldredder · 2017-08-15T11:13:45+00:00

no single answer to that: what you do, not "if" you have a female friend, or a few, makes the situation red-pill, blue-pill or neither.

Everything sounds fine to me. You date, you fuck girls, she's not interfering with that, the boyfriend is gone a lot so he's no trouble, so whatevs.

GreenPiller · 2017-08-15T09:20:12+00:00

How is this Red Pill??? You are basically her gay friend. Also what's the point of watching porn together??? You could've at least scissored each other. This shit is giving me a headache.

Triadis3 · 2017-08-15T07:22:12+00:00

You're just another sad little beta orbiter.

She sees you as her girlfriend.

She probably thinks you're gay.

Jesus that was painful to read.

Give your scrotum a sharp tug to see if your balls will finally descend.

firewaterdirt · 2017-08-15T12:38:24+00:00

She sounds like cool shit tbh. You could ask her to be your wingman or maybe try going out with her girlfriends if you don't have any feelings for her.

My only concern is her boyfriend. If he finds out that you watch porn with her he will kick the shit out of you.

RPShitlord · 2017-08-15T12:31:29+00:00

She tells her friends what a nice beta orbiter you are. You will get absolutely nothing from her friends. Hard next all women who won't fuck you.

quicklogaccount · 2017-08-15T12:39:56+00:00

If you get along well with her, she adds things to you, you're not only hanging with her to wait in line for a shot, you're cool. Evidence for that.

She comes to my dorm often brings food, drives me from my hall to the airport and back for my flight home and even has the majority of my clothes that I usually wear to class at her house now.

On the other hand you also give evidence that you're just another clueless dude waiting in line.

First time I was like wtf this girl clearly thinks I'm not gonna do shit. I felt stupid.

Feeling stupid is gold, it hints what you truly want there. lol
Figure out where you stand with her.

Anyway, some chicks add to your life. Company, value, whatever. It won't harm you to keep them along, but you need to bear in mind that exchanging minor sexual validation IS a part of this role and you can't be a sex starved dude or you'll misunderstand this and fuck up, either by hitting on her like an idiot who thinks his entitled to her pussy because he was nice, or by being a sad orbiter.
And female friends help a lot with getting laid, as long as they're attractive.

If you're not already getting laid, look into changing "I been on dates with other girls" into "I've been banging other chicks" and you'll be in the spot to choose whether you want to keep this chick as a friend or you're just waiting in line.

websurfingninja · 2017-08-15T12:44:04+00:00

Thanks for the advice guys appreciate it.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-08-15T18:03:53+00:00

"We even watched porn together one time lol I know. To me overtime she became like a bro even better in some aspects."

You watch porn with your bros? That's what's up my man.

"I must admit tho she is genuinely very nice and messages me on a daily even tho I'm back home and didn't return for school. She comes to my dorm often brings food, drives me from my hall to the airport and back for my flight home and even has the majority of my clothes that I usually wear to class at her house now. "

You're not a true beta in her eyes if she willing to invest in you like that.

"I've kinda lost the attraction I had for her I been on dates with other girls since then. "

If you're seeing other girls successfully and your sexual needs are being met elsewhere, you are not a beta. That's Red Pill. So enjoy whatever it is you have going on with her, but don't get comfortable. Display strength when you can, tease her, don't bother talk about your weaknesses or feelings, keep things fun etc.

Scheme00 · 2017-08-15T07:12:02+00:00

How does friend zone feel? Nothing red pill about that.

Title	Is a Female Friend Red Pill?
Author	websurfingninja
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Comments	29
Date	August 15, 2017 7:05 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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"We even watched porn together one time lol I know. To me overtime she became like a bro even better in some aspects."

"I've kinda lost the attraction I had for her I been on dates with other girls since then. "