I’m (21F) & I been talking to this girl for almost 2 months now she’s (23) sorry in advance if this is long! I’d love opinions.

Yesterday I told her I kinda feel like I want more than you do. We did talk about moving slow in the beginning (she said she’d only ask someone to be her gf after hanging out a handful of times) but at the stage we’re at I kinda want more from this as in I wanted a relationship & officially be with her.

and she kinda panicked? And was like “wdym? Am I not doing enough? I’m in this with you, I don’t want anyone else”

Which shocked me because she’s the nonchalant type like she has to be in a soft mood to say things like that normally.

we also haven’t met yet. She said it’s because her last relationship really messed her up and I’m the first real thing since then and she wants this one to be right? And asked me to be patient about meeting. She also said she isn’t comfortable with herself enough yet and is scared I won’t like her in person.

anyway I told her I wanted to be with her and she replied after “you are with me? You’re my girl?”

Which when I hear someone say that you’d normally think girlfriend right? So I was like hm? you never asked when did that happen? Lol

And she goes well wait what does “my girl” mean to you? “Did you think you were my girlfriend? I thought it would be obvious you weren’t bc I haven’t asked”

And I said that was confusing to me because what else would “my girl” imply? Lol and she goes “it means we’re talking, only talking to eachother like you’re my girl in the sense that we’re talking and the next step would be dating”

I truly don’t think she’s talking to anyone else bc we talk everyday very often. and she tells me everytime she goes out even FaceTimes me while she’s out. I do believe she likes me I just don’t understand that logic I guess? lol I’m scared of looking stupid in the end.

Pls tell me I’m not the only one who would be confused by this haha

TLDR I’m 21 she’s 23 we are both female, been talking almost 2 months (: