I don't feel like I'm good enough for a woman to like me.

GoodSilhouette · 2022-08-20T17:53:43+00:00

Work on your low self esteem, do that for you.

You don't have any similarly or lower paid coworkers or friends who are dating or in a relationship?

anon018274031 · 2022-08-21T09:22:00+00:00

‘I only make 30k a year’.

I’m 23, f, just here to reassure you as a working women we don’t really care that much about your paycheck at this age. Career progression maybe, like long term most women want a partner that if they were to be sick/get pregnant etc it wouldn’t be a complete disaster, but 30k at your age is fine.

Also I note you work in healthcare (same), that’s a female dominantes field. There will be loads of single women around.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2022-08-21T05:18:43+00:00

There are plenty of guys in their early 30s who don't have their lives together who do great in dating. They are successful because maybe they are physically attractive, are good at talking to women, or meet a lot of women, so maybe work on that stuff. Getting your life together will definitely help especially for long-term relationships but many does do this and don't see their dating lives change at all.

Online dating sucks for the vast majority of men because men far outnumber women online. Thats why its best to also meet women irl. Even if you don't like alcohol you can go to bars mainly for social reasons not alcohol (lots of people do this). There are also many other ways to meet women.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-08-21T00:45:18+00:00

You gotta level yourself up man, get into the gym, work towards eventually a higher status job and you should be swimming in women.

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earlerichardsjr · 2022-08-21T13:23:12+00:00

You're just getting started. You grind in your 20s and build in your 30s so you can chill in your 40s. Remember to work on your muscles, money, game, and frame as you go.

zapadz · 2022-08-20T18:30:31+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g1oJcBJhzSo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLsUnv50Hq4

Few-Supermarket-8350 · 2022-08-21T16:00:30+00:00

You need to work on your self-esteem. You will never find what you want if you don't see yourself as a valuable person.

This is why you should work on getting trade or gain some skill set, so that you can increase your earning potential. When you feel like you've got yourself in a comfortable place then it will be time for girlfriends.

KingKunta2-D · 2022-08-22T02:31:10+00:00

Same. I feel like the fact that I want to be a farmer but own no land or a house. makes me feel like I can't look for a wife. I have no bluepill advice for you. Maybe just take solace in the fact that half of us are making less than 50k a year, under 170cm tall. At least its not your moms basement. Try meeting people in a church or religious group. They hate drinking, and there more girls than guys so that works in your favor

Title	I don't feel like I'm good enough for a woman to like me.
Author	Single-Flounder-2984
Upvotes	12
Comments	17
Date	August 20, 2022 5:47 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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