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Why Men Stay Single - Psychology Today

Heavy_Grand2526

September 5, 2022
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202209/why-men-stay-single
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Title Why Men Stay Single - Psychology Today
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Heavy_Grand2526

Upvotes 6
Comments 19
Date September 5, 2022 2:29 AM UTC
(3 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
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Comments

[–]Mediocre_Ad_91171 points 3 years ago [recovered] (21 children) | Copy Link

Women now are so entitled that they expect the man to get on his knees, bark and play fetch to keep them entertained.

They're manipulative, non-submissive, and the thought of divorce r*pe based on her feelings alone makes the juice not worth the squeeze.

[–]TheSnesLord 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women now are so entitled that they expect the man to get on his knees, bark and play fetch to keep them entertained.

Don't forget the man also needs to be handsome, over six foot, six pack, massive arms, you-know-what over six inches, six figure salary, etc.

[–]Grouchy_Attention9631 points 3 years ago [recovered] (19 children) | Copy Link

Dude it’s that cause women don’t have to face hardship as much as men. They can just skip along life with little to no hardship being average looking or above. As a man you won’t face much hardship if you are minimum very attractive having the halo effect or from rich parents who spoil you with a new Audi and pay for your tuition and medical needs.

[–]Laniekea 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

unless you are strictly disciplined to make all the right choices and most men can’t.

Why do you think they can't?

[–]NohoTwoPointOh 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because they are human.

Novel concept, perhaps?

[–]Grouchy_Attention9631 points 3 years ago [recovered] (16 children) | Copy Link

Because they are driven by testosterone that breeds animal like behavior. Aggression, resentment, self soothing behaviors like eating unhealthy, porn, unnecessary spending, excessive drinking and going out. I think a man should be focused on his goals, work out etc when the world is almost against you it’s not easy most men that escape the trap of destructive behavior usually end up in a better position.

[–]odysseytree 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

Aggression, resentment, self soothing behaviors like eating unhealthy, excessive porn, unnecessary spending, excessive drinking and going out.

This has nothing to do with testosterone. This is very common in both gender.

[–]Grouchy_Attention963 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

click here

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Do you know how to use the internet ?

[–]shit-zen-giggles 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Free testosterone was measured in the saliva of 89 male prison inmates.

Wow! such statistic rigor! Such solid research.

Rather than the correlation being high as insinuated by the methodologically weak study you shared, this comprehensive meta-analysis of numerous studies found weak yet significant correlation.

And then there's studies like this one that indicate that testosterone enhances status preserving behaviours, both pro-social and anti-social, rather than just bluntly enhancing aggression: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27671627/

[–]Grouchy_Attention963 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So at least you have come to agree that testosterone does play a roll initially you said it didn’t.

[–]shit-zen-giggles 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lol. The above was my only post in this thread...

Check which users you're replying to / interact with.

No surprise you reference junk science.

[–]Grouchy_Attention9631 points 3 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

I'm talking about being overly agressive.. every one ever put in prison for violence has ridiculous levels of testosterone at least majority of them being men. Men have higher death rates compared to women.. why are we having this conversation you dont know what you are talking about..

[–]odysseytree 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Higher death rates are because of risky jobs. More male prisoners is because of social conditioning.

[–]Grouchy_Attention963 -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I really think testosterone has a huge roll still because this sets to be true in many cultures regardless of social structures and conditioning. Men are the closest thing to being animals.

[–]odysseytree 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Men are socially conditioned in almost the same way globally. Their gender role is universally the same there are consequences for escaping from the role. Capable of producing the aggression and acting on the agression are 2 different things.

[–]Grouchy_Attention963 -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I don’t think so dude. Why do you think do you think roid rage is a thing?

[–]Laniekea 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You know there are some old studies that I found interesting on the topic. They interviewed women who had committed violent crimes and found that a very large percentage of women in prison (over 50%) who had committed violent crimes did so while PMSing, and also that women in prison for violent crime had very high rates of pmdd.

It's relevant because women women are PMSing they have higher than normal levels of testosterone.

Anyways, I recognize that these things to affect our moods and probably influence people's decisions. However how much society should be willing to "bend" around these problems is another bigger question.

[–]andejoh 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Self esteem impacts men's relationships, but not women's. Men who have high self esteem are confident enough to ask women out so are more likely to be in a relationship or single by choice. Women don't ask men out so self esteem is irrelevant. It took research to figure that out?

[–]Training-Rich5057 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It is smarter for men no matter how they look to stay single by choice. Dating, relationships, and marriage do go well for many men. Free, single, and happy is the way to go, it is smart decision making.

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