She ghosted me

stickfiguresk · 2017-08-29T23:49:35+00:00

Who's the prize? Start working on alternatives and when/if she hollers, give a pleasent, "oh hey" like moving on is the easiest thing you've ever done. Less is always more.

Who's the prize?

JeffreyDoe · Wed Aug 30 0:00:05 2017 UTC

This just proves women will turn their emotions off in a blink of an eye. I wouldnt give my emotions to a species like that.

im sure you arent completely innocent though.

count_Tchockula · 2017-08-30T06:11:12+00:00

Hey man i can fully relate to this. Especially because even though i hadnt read RP at all, i was still leading my own life, not really making her a priority and being relatively aloof. And she was more into me than i was into her so i thought things were fine. 5 months in, we go away on a 4 day trip, things seem to be fine--ends with her kissing me and saying we should make plans to go out later that week. Then i never saw her ever again--even when i asked to meet up casually, she'd reply very vaguely and like a day or two later, when it used to be within seconds and she'd be fully transparent. I was super upset--especially because the last time i saw her, she was pretty affectionate and now she was acting so cold and distant.

Thats what lead me here and my whole perspective has changed. Some lessons learned: --i stopped looking for other women at the time. Always have something in the pipeline.

--always be a mystery--be vague about yourself as much as possible while giving just enough to keep her hooked.

--even if you do everything correctly they could still leave you--womens interest is fickle. Thats why you shouldn't invest in them emotionally as much as your goals.

SirKolbath · 2017-08-29T23:53:55+00:00

So? Her loss. You need to practice abundance mentality. If she's ghosting you, you win. She didn't even have the stones to end it face to face.

GreenPiller · 2017-08-30T00:17:43+00:00

Maybe she's on her period

askmrcia · 2017-08-30T00:51:54+00:00

Smh... Fuck her man. Don't even know her but still.

Know it sucks op but this is the exact reason I don't put feelings into women. They can leave anytime they want.

Thinkingard · 2017-08-30T01:38:07+00:00

Women are fickle. I've had one do this to me before and I never got closure. The Red Pill taught me, years later, I became too beta and had her on a pedestal, and that is why she ditched me. I don't blame her anymore and I've moved on, and although you may not have done anything beta, your LTR most likely grabbed onto another guys branch and let go of yours.

BusterVadge · 2017-08-30T14:12:20+00:00

I thought her father took her phone away.

You're young. I would advise against a LTR at your age anyway until you get more experience with women.

Title	She ghosted me
Author	Primary__Account
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	August 29, 2017 11:44 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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