What event made you sought out alternatives lenses like TRP opposed to your toxic way of thinking during that event?

t_jones730 · 2017-09-01T09:22:59+00:00

The recognition of a need for change came when I realized my paradigm up until that point was flawed. A man as a servant, chained at marriage to forever treat his "wife" with higher esteem than he treats himself. Forever sacrificing himself, his obligations, and his needs for the sake of his one infinite love who will forever hold a status of superiority due to his incapacity to provide for her based on the equal measure of her elevated worth.

The impossibility to amount to any of my distant ambitions because the energy within me had been drained by the years of self-inflicted servitude to a goddess I had created in my own mind, a goddess who's status is promoted and ensured by feminist propaganda and Disney fairy tale love stories.

I realized something wasn't right when my expectations for her to return the favor of perceiving me in the elevated God-like status of fairy-tale Love was shattered by a four month affair.

I was broken and free at the same time. Torn in two directions, I couldn't understand myself, and went looking for answers.

My heart broke at an ignorant bliss being shattered by the lifting of the blue pill veil.

My soul secretly soared at possibilities I knew now that would unfold once I was healed from the disillusionment with time.

And now I am developing myself, moving forward with realizations far different than my expectations at the moment of unveiling. I have far more work to do than I anticipated; but now that I am free, my potential is far greater than I ever could have imagined with the illusion of a wife beside me.

Truth is precious and necessary. It must be cherished at all costs. The mind is easily deceived, by yourself more often than not.

The Red Pill is darkest at the onset. Until you realize that you never needed the blue pill, and that you never needed to "act" with the qualities of the Red Pill.

When you finally give up the act in either direction is when you've gained traction. And sometimes that means removing yourself from the game for a bit to get your own shit together to meet your own standards again.

Because let's face it:

Do you want to act like a man, or do you want to be one?

It's a choice. Your choice.

GreenPiller · 2017-09-01T13:24:25+00:00

I wasnt getting the results I wanted and the only advice I kept receiving was, "maybe she wasn't the one" "you'll find someone one day" "just be yourself, the right girl will come along". Meanwhile Chad's fucking my dream girl in the ass. It's was obvious something was wrong

hesbeenfalconed · 2017-09-01T15:48:18+00:00

It was Milo Yiannopoulos's article on Breitbart titled, "The Sexodus."

I was into political news and did not know who Milo was, I just happened upon the article while keeping up with the news. When i read The Sexodus part 1 & 2, it was like being struck by lightning. Here was an article that perfectly summed up what I KNEW deep down inside of my gut but could never articulate or express!

I was already aware of the PUA community thanks to Neil Strauss's "The Game," but i had no idea the what the community had evolved into.

That article lead me to Jack Donovan, The Rational Male, Chateau Heartiste, Dalrock, Roosh V, Return of Kings, Vox Day, MGTOW and The Red Pill subreddit.

It was like falling down a rabbit hole.

Reading the posts on trp page was like having the scales fall from my eyes - truly a Biblical experience. It was like stumbling upon alchemy. This knowledge has changed who I am. I'll never be able to go back to who I was before.

Because of one article, I can divide my life into before The Red Pill and after The Red Pill.

TheDreadnought1 · 2017-09-01T14:34:19+00:00

I've always been the observer kind of guy. I was a huge failure with women, I just didn't know what to talk, how to talk and how to escalate with them. And besides that, of course the the blue pill method of being the nice guy had been killed in my mind long ago, since I've seen Chads being preferred to Nice Guys a million times, so I knew something was wrong. Searching through the internet, trying to discover what to do with girls and why they acted the way they acted, eventually I stumble upon this sub. Learned a lot since that day

vandaalen · 2017-09-01T09:06:10+00:00

Wat?

chachaChad · 2017-09-01T09:58:31+00:00

I was whining about over in deadbedrooms and someone pointed me here. Things aren’t perfect but getting better. Phew...

thatboyjeff · 2017-09-01T10:43:57+00:00

Googling something about relationships, specifically women behaving in certain ways.

Ive been reading for awhile, and turns out, I still dont know jack shit and have a lot of work to do.

Overall, TRP and MRP has changed how I value myself. I didnt respect myself before, what a fucking joke... and that laid the foundation for everything else that followed..

TRP-Works · 2017-09-01T15:02:11+00:00

I was orbiter for a girl for a while.. to the point that I was sleeping and cuddling with her in her bed. I had told her I had feelings for her but it continued. I had a friend point me here and I read a bit on dread games, so I went out and got a hickey (had no issues actually getting girls from tinder and stuff at the time), she saw it and then slept with me a few days later.. but the relationship wouldn't progress to something she saw exclusive.

'Luckily' (at the time) my ex texted me and she saw it. She got jealous and asked me to be exclusive which I hurriedly agreed to. That lasted about two weeks before she wanted to go back to not being exclusive. I told her to fuck off, came back here for the first time since my initial read and haven't looked back. I was angry and resentful. Still am based on some of the things I've noticed (look at my last comment).

Peter_B_Long · 2017-09-01T23:33:50+00:00

I wish I had found TRP after I got cheated by my unicorn in high school with 2 guys and I also found out that the baby in her belly wasn't mine while all my family knew I was going to have a kid..

But 4 years later during a 3.5 year relationship I stumbled upon this and it changed my life. Read NMMNG, the sidebar, top posts, etc.

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