as title says. turned 24 recently and our marriage has been down for the past few months. what was a young marriage is beginning to feel like a mistake. I love my wife but within the past year the cracks have began to form in our marriage. now i know that i am not the diamond husband that a man should be, but i come from a blue collar family, very light drinking, 40 hour work week, good pay, benefits. everything a person needs to thrive in life. yet the growing rift in my marriage is leaving me baffled. i dont want to come off as weak but i feel as most arguments end with some very damaging words. we've spoken about boundaries as to not cross lines but it seems like its been gloves off the past few months. i know im not perfect but i feel like im missing out of a great part of life becuase of this vow i naively made