Do you think that if a woman lets herself go, her husband has the option to cheat on her?

OkProfessional9405 · 2022-11-03T04:33:44+00:00

A husband always has the option to cheat, but it's not a good option and it's never justified as an ethical choice.

Same is true for the wife.

Letting yourself go could potentially cause your partner to lose sexual interest however and that could lead to them feeling they got bait-and-switched in the marriage. Loss of chemistry has lead to plenty of marriages ending. But you don't need to cheat to leave a relationship.

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-11-03T05:00:47+00:00

I'm going to assume you are the author of the 'My husband cheated on me because I got to 200lbs' post you responded to.

No, it is not fair or kind of loving to cheat on a spouse because they've gained weight. However, you're not going to feel better by posting rage bait on Reddit so that people can sympathize with you. It sucks, and you deserve better, but the pain and anguish needs to be sorted out between you and a therapist, and possibly your husband if you're staying with him.

Lana_Gitana · 2022-11-03T03:07:22+00:00

sushi_30 · 2022-11-03T04:13:07+00:00

Of course not. But it's definitely something to discuss. I want to be with someone I find physically attractive. Aging & other legitimate illness aside, if a woman or a man let themselves go, it's something to bring up.

TheBananaEater · 2022-11-03T05:21:38+00:00

No but i do think it should be more socially acceptable criticize her or him for letting themselves go

UncensoredUnfltrd · 2022-11-03T03:26:26+00:00

FriendlyBadger786 · 2022-11-03T04:30:28+00:00

No. Both sexes should take care of themself, if your husband or wife has been getting out of shape the best thing to do is have a serious conversation about getting healthier and try to fix the cause. Cheating is never ok

sparklyyblueberryy · 2022-11-03T04:22:55+00:00

No. It’s not a male or female issue either to ”take care of yourself”.

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mosthideousmodel · 2022-11-03T05:11:08+00:00

Sigh

a_tall_amanda · 2022-11-03T06:00:58+00:00

Cheating is always wrong and there is no context where cheating is acceptable.

Title	Do you think that if a woman lets herself go, her husband has the option to cheat on her?
Author	plls-473
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	November 3, 2022 2:57 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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