Like the title says, I just got a phone call out of the blue from a man who is saying he’s potentially raising a girl I’m the biological father to. He called out the girl I was with 6 years ago, both first and last name, and she was born right around the time my girlfriend at the time had ‘constipation issues’, and became more and more bloated. A week came where she was in the hospital all week and I couldn’t reach her. I finally drove down to the hospital and the nurses told me she was in labor and delivery but couldn’t tell me why and I couldn’t see her. A father (if I was one) has no rights it seemed. No info, no access.

Well, she came back later in the week and told me she just shit out a whole bunch of backed up feces. I was wary and definitely my mom was too. She eventually convinced me it definitely wasn’t a kid, even though my mother would tell me to keep asking (which I did), even six months after. We dated for 2ish years past this incident… No hint or any talk about a kid.

This guy seems like he doesn’t need anything from me, just wanted to reach out because he hasn’t heard from the mother in like two years and wants to eventually get to know me potentially. Showed me photos and damn, she might actually be from me…. She’s 6 years old and I just now know.

Anyone been in a situation like this?