I can imagine there’s some RP men who are in relationships with BP women that don’t follow/agree with the TRP. If you’re actually RP, you need to break up with them. You’re not compatible, and she is under no obligation to do anything for you unless she wants to. I wouldn’t even give them an ultimatum, just leave. There are women out there who are willing to be RP for the right guy, so just be the right guy.