Discussion: For online dating is it good to video chat before meeting in person?

northernlights190 · 2022-11-25T00:45:23+00:00

I wouldn’t personally do it, I just find video calls so awkward at the best of times and would rather just grab a drink with zero expectations. But when I was on OLD I wasn’t matching with or wanting to meet nearly as many people as you are, so it makes sense I suppose if you’re doing that kind of volume. Whatever works for you, for sure.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-11-24T23:16:26+00:00

is it good to video chat before meeting

No. First impressions are pivotal. Wideo calls, don't represent people fully. As body language is a large percentage of communication. Much of which can be misconstrued digitally.

Godspeed and good luck!

Digedag · 2022-11-24T23:20:20+00:00

- Gold Digger

- Obsessed with Sick kids

- I was rude

Please elaborate on these meetings.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-11-25T02:30:18+00:00

I think so, I at least don't think it's a horrible idea , there is something to be said about the first impression in meeting somebody in person, but unless they have an updated social media why not make sure you're not getting catfished lol

Lyracole · 2022-11-24T23:20:29+00:00

Absolutely. I actually have it as a requirement personally that anyone I'm going to meet IRL video chats with me first. If they don't look like their pictures, or if they give me skeezy vibes during what is essentially a safety screening by me, I nope out. I use the opportunity to get to know them in a way that text-only communication can't provide. Things like body language, how much attention they pay to me and where they are looking, how they can hold a conversation?

It's ESSENTIAL. It prevents awkward in-person meetups and keeps people safe.

Over_Noise3530 · 2022-11-25T03:00:41+00:00

If it's just casual sex then it's too much effort

Ylduts · 2022-11-25T05:33:30+00:00

IMO push for an IRL date ASAP. Time is short and you can’t get it back. Don’t waste time.

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Ecstatic-Score2844 · 2022-11-25T02:14:31+00:00

I have had good experience with phone calls. It helped me not waste as much time...

obviousredflag · 2022-11-25T08:50:53+00:00

What is the difference between flaking on you and standing you up?

Title	Discussion: For online dating is it good to video chat before meeting in person?
Author	CMC11232
Upvotes	0
Comments	13
Date	November 24, 2022 10:38 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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