How to become chad? I'm willing to put in the work.

TrenGod37 · 2017-09-12T20:06:16+00:00

You say you have swallowed it and you are willing to put in the work. Well what makes you think you swallowed it and what work have you already put in?

Because from the sound of it you haven't put in much work at all. Otherwise you would have read the sidebar and realized that focusing and sulking over not getting laid and your lack of plates is counter initiative to what you're trying to accomplish

Torabor64 · 2017-09-12T20:12:34+00:00

Literally all TRP is about "becoming" chad (you never finish the process but whatever). Just keep lifting, approaching, and expanding your social circle. Have real hobbies too.

If you had swallowed the RP, you should already be doing all these, and wouldn't have time to ask what else you have to do.

GayLubeOil · 2017-09-12T23:55:19+00:00

People define themselves by the memories of their own actions. I'd say I became Chad after I put 4 fingers in a girls butthole and then shook hands with her dad when he came to drop off some dorm supplies.

After realizing I was capable of that level of depravity, I knew that the world was just an Asian girl butthole waiting for me to explore it.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-09-12T20:32:08+00:00

Welcome to the anger phase. It's not an easy pill to swallow is it? The fact that youre getting depressed is a sign that youre waking up from your little fairy tale viewpoint of your life and the world. Reality's a bitch.

Return to the sidebar. Return to the gym. And return to improving your game and social status. You have plenty of things you could improve about yourself.

mental_models · 2017-09-12T21:08:13+00:00

You have No Game right now, and no momentum.

Spin some HB5's if you have to. Once you have three fives and you have the system itself, and the logistics working for you, UPGRADE a couple to >5's and soft-next any of the 5's who are tapping resources or not working for you. If you can thrive as an amateur chad, you may be ready for the pros someday.

Almost sounds like you are asking permission to be confident. Ditto w/ spinning some plates.

JackGetsIt · 2017-09-12T22:46:41+00:00

Damn the answers in this thread are not the best. I read or watched somewhere (probably a Joe Rogan Podcast) that said the secret to success is two things: find the price, pay the price. I have a feeling from your comment that you might not understand the price. Another factor at play here is that not everyone can become 'Chad' the areas that you need to improve on to become 'Chad' are all difficult and you could spend your whole life on just one of them and maybe not hit a high level depending on your particular situation in life (how much capital you are starting with so to speak).

It sounds to me that you just want to get laid with more women and maybe some higher quality women. This my friend is VERY doable. Women really aren't the problem. Women can be had.

So start working on the areas you know you need to work on: career, socializing, health. But more importantly search around for what you really want and figure out what that actual price tag is. Once you figure that out you can get moving and you can at the same time bring a better energy to interactions with other humans. Nobody likes the energy from a person that wants to be 'Chad.' Most of the time Chad doesn't know he's Chad. He's just feeding off of positive energy and putting that energy back out and it's a good feedback loop and most of all he's competing everyday to accomplish a mission.

Good luck!

Books I think you might benefit from

Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi

The Way of Men by Jack Donovan

3% Man by Corey Wayne

jm51 · 2017-09-12T22:57:41+00:00

Stop thinking like a special entitled snowflake, that's womens work.

btw, your ex is a plate.

[deleted] · 2017-09-12T20:41:48+00:00

I would recommend finding reasons other than pickup to improve yourself. Once you're truly doing the right things and it is for yourself, you'll start to see results.

the_real_lunch_box · 2017-09-13T06:53:49+00:00

stop with the ex. Or tell her you don't want to continue with her seeing other dudes. Then you have to get you mind out of the gutter (stop thinking you need a woman). This is very hard, some TRP guys recommend meditation i recommend keeping busy with you life (lift, work, study)

vandaalen · 2017-09-12T20:17:37+00:00

tinder

red12717 · 2017-09-13T00:58:33+00:00

What should you do?

1: Stop fucking your ex. Move the fuck on unless you enjoy being treated like a man slut.

2: Lay out a career. It can involve a plan B and a plan C, but part of TRP is learning how to maximize your later-life value as much as chasing pussy today. The easiest way of doing this is building a career that affords you a significant degree of financial security. Chad doesn't work retail and his aspiration is not to become the store manager so that he can proceed to work 60+ hour work weeks that, by the hours, have him making roughly minimum wage.

3: Working out is great, but you need to have a clean diet. Learning how to cook is excellent from many angles; if nothing else it saves money, it's healthier than eating out of a box, and home cooked meals are one of the oldest male-side shit tests in the book.

4: Speak a second language. French, Spanish, and Portuguese are all wise, but other languages like German, Austrian, Swiss, Swedish, Japanese, Mandarin, Cantonese or Vietnamese can all get you far with the right woman. It also helps to be able to take that card out of her hand if she's a native speaker or first generation and knows the language herself.

5: Get used to responding to accusations of you doing what you want and being selfish with something similar to, 'you're damn right I'm doing what I want.' No one likes a doormat, there is no moral positive to living for anyone other than yourself.

6: Lift at least twice a week. MMA is great exercise but it's almost pure calisthenics.

7: Have hobbies. Reading isn't a hobby, it's self improvement. Video games are not a hobby, they're a pass time, kind of like how the act of watching TV- and yes, this even applies to watching the game- isn't a hobby either. We're talking about something you enjoy doing with a skill gradient that separates Joe Average from a seasoned veteran. Wood carving, carpentry, metal working, MMA, etc. Something which you could conceivably fall back on in between jobs to make some beer money.

8: Accept that you might just not have the facial aesthetics to be 'Chad.' Plastic surgery exists for a reason.

[deleted] · 2017-09-13T00:13:58+00:00

Not everyone can be Chad. To be a Chad you generally have to be white, 6', & good looking.

However, if you do fit the description above, you should be able to walk into a bar/club & leave with a girl almost every time. If not then the problem is your lack game.

Title	How to become chad? I'm willing to put in the work.
Author	red12717
Upvotes	10
Comments	26
Date	September 12, 2017 7:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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